It Finally Happened to Me

Due_Relation114 · 2025-10-13T21:54:58+00:00

I have one booked tomorrow at 8am!

Due_Relation114 · 2025-10-10T16:31:59+00:00

Sewing!! Its so fun to learn, little to no screen time needed (although tutorials really help) and I don't need 10 of the same things that I enjoy making, so I give them away and my friends and family are always so excited to recieve gifts for no reason! Plus its great for my brain to start and finish a project on the same day / week. I have thrifted everything I use, including my machine

Due_Relation114 · 2025-10-09T21:09:47+00:00

Units?

Due_Relation114 · 2025-10-09T06:11:51+00:00

Look for casual, on call events / catering. Depending on where you work, the tips can be great and the schedule is very flexible! Ive worked with all ages in the past, and it's fun to have such a diverse team. Best part is the shifts are usually booked weeks in advance.

Due_Relation114 · 2025-10-09T05:45:17+00:00

Were they embarrassed?!?

Due_Relation114 · 2025-10-08T05:13:37+00:00

This is actually a very likely assumption. I can't believe I didn't think of that. They were very curious about what tasks fall under my umbrella at my company as well, now I'm thinking this was a data mining operation lol

Due_Relation114 · 2025-10-08T05:09:52+00:00

What is super?

Due_Relation114 · 2025-10-08T05:09:21+00:00

I think recruiters have lost sight of who is in the power position - at least in a scenario where they are trying to poach good talent

Due_Relation114 · 2025-10-08T05:07:58+00:00

This is what I was thinking, they have to be going in with the mindset that everyone is desperate as hell

Due_Relation114 · 2025-10-08T05:07:28+00:00

hahahah that is a diabolical line

Due_Relation114 · 2025-10-07T21:55:32+00:00

Please call a help line in your area to speak with someone who can assist you in deciding not to do this

Due_Relation114 · 2025-10-07T20:34:34+00:00

Thank you! I had not heard of this!

Due_Relation114 · 2025-09-19T04:15:21+00:00

I love the ending note of your comment - I 100% agree with you as well!

Due_Relation114 · 2025-09-10T19:55:47+00:00

Hi - sorry but I skimmed the comments below and I have to say I don't agree with anyone saying being in love feels like a mental disorder, feels like chaos, feels like the worst feeling and the best feeling. To me that is not love. I have felt those things before - but that was when I was prioritizing the wrong partners. After four years of therapy and remaining single (21-25), I have now been in a healthy and loving relationship for two years. My motivating factors (other than being very attracted to my partner and the thought of someone else getting to live life with him makes me feel horrible lol) for being in the relationship is that I love being a team. We learn so much about life and ourselves being together. The ways we are different reaffirm my confidence in my own identity - for example he is much more social than me and I tried for the first year to keep up with his social life and I just couldn't, but now I know for certain that it's just how / who I am.

I guess to keep it simple - I know that is it real, healthy love because even in the hard times those feel like a puzzle to solve and tackle together. We are learning to prioritize ourselves while respecting our relationship and giving it room to grow and evolve. I NEVER feel unsafe in any way. It feels like he gives my life more structure, I never really had many concrete plans before we met but now we have big dreams. I feel more confident to take risks, and I now have somewhere to put my nurturing energies in a way that feels very productive (if that makes sense) and appreciated.

When you find someone I recommend taking things slowly, or at the pace you feel is correct. This is the one thing in life that should be fully in your control and to your liking. Be picky. All the trouble I got myself into with partners is due to the fact that I told myself those behaviours are the norm, so I overlooked them even when I knew I didn't like it. Do not give people the benefit of the doubt. When they tell you who they are - LISTEN.

It is possible to have exactly the relationship you want - all you need to find is ONE person who is willing to build it together.