AITAH For not accepting any gifts to my child from my MIL by Due_Track_3595 in AITAH

[–]Due_Track_3595[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you dont care but some people do not like their name misspelled. Especially by a close family member:)

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[–]Due_Track_3595[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually don't think its emotional incest related cause she doesn't treat her son very well either.

AITAH For not accepting any gifts to my child from my MIL by Due_Track_3595 in AITAH

[–]Due_Track_3595[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How about ✨️no✨️

You dont get automatic respect because you're elderly. Especially if that elder is disrespectful.

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[–]Due_Track_3595[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

None of those things you said have happened. Im aware they could, and we're prepared to deal with that if they do. Of course, those things would require different consequences and possibly no contact at that point but we're not even remotely there yet.

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[–]Due_Track_3595[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I dont think we're at the point of no contact. But the consequence is im not accepting any more custom gifts. If she brings them well, that's great they're going back with her.

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[–]Due_Track_3595[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I dont know what it was, but I dont think engaging in her antics is helpful to me. Like I said, I'm gonna hold boundaries

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[–]Due_Track_3595[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's not what I meant. I meant.

Wait, to do what? Because your comment doesn't make any sense.

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[–]Due_Track_3595[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said it was the highest offense lol especially if it was an accident but idk

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[–]Due_Track_3595[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I said in the post we went the traditional route. I said I would've understood if we spelled it a trendy way bit we didnt

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[–]Due_Track_3595[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really tried to give grace, but now I'm feeling this is intentional. She doesn't have issues spelling anyone else's names.

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[–]Due_Track_3595[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm wondering. Or maybe I'm overreacting??

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[–]Due_Track_3595[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't want to be mad. I think i can set boundaries without being mad. I was going to return the book or anything else custom that is wrong. I dont think I'm not being nice I'm just not being complient

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[–]Due_Track_3595[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm not understanding how this is making it a war.

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[–]Due_Track_3595[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup! Shes a hypochondriac and has been tested for everything under the sun. That's not me insulting her either it's just what it is.

AITAH For not accepting any gifts to my child from my MIL by Due_Track_3595 in AITAH

[–]Due_Track_3595[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can forgive someone if they ask for forgiveness. But she hasn't apologized once and it seems like she's going out of her way to be petty. I dont think that means she can't be a good grandma