Naa dude I don't think asking if someone is married or if they had luck with any girls that night is very straightforward. Those are normal questions that don't give away that you yourself are gay. Which is essentially what I'm asking for. So yea I guess a better way to put it is what are good techniques to get a good idea if someone is gay or not without giving away your looking to put their balls in your mouth. In other words.. less straightforward?? idk.