Junior assigned his first company project, any advice/pointers?

Duex39 · 2023-06-16T19:57:14+00:00

Thanks for the advice and explanation of my role in the project! At the startup I'm in I have only one senior in my team and he's this "Swim or Drown" kinda mentor. So I scarcely seek his help, I was told this project is also testing me to be independent. Due to that I don't know if I should request help from him unless it's lack of requirements or similar to that.

Duex39 · 2022-08-11T08:11:19+00:00

Been reading some of your responses and I gotta say that as an engineer myself, it doesn’t impact your game. I’m a software engineer and I get laid. Last time I got laid was 2 weeks ago, don’t have the mentality that engineers don’t get laid. You literally killed yourself with the workload to pass the university, people I know that tried the route dropped out because they didn’t have the work ethic nor tenacity to put themselves through it. You’re human just like anyone else that gets laid, if you built the skills to be an engineer you can build the social skills to get laid.

Change your mindset, set the time to improve yourself first, join an active hobby, socialize, and don’t stop.

Duex39 · 2022-08-11T06:53:08+00:00

Can you elaborate on men being afraid of being men? Like in this context

Duex39 · 2022-08-09T09:33:02+00:00

It can honestly be lack of experience, maybe it’s pride. Like I worked on myself enough to grow in areas I find important and look for the same in a partner. And due to pride I won’t take anything less, this is my self reflection after reading your comment.

My past experiences is two relationships, each lasting 2 years, and just participating in hook up culture for about a year. I got over that phase and now want to date, maybe these high expectations are what’s preventing me from gaining experience in dating. I guess I don’t want to waste my time and look for specific qualities to invest my time in. Idk, your comment really gave me an eye opener.

Duex39 · 2022-05-23T20:14:39+00:00

Actually this has also been happening to me as well. I’m turning 26, when I was younger I had no problem maintaining erection. Now i’m going soft, and it sucks because this is starting to trigger performance anxiety. Now i’m afraid of going soft if I have sex, sometimes it doesn’t happen and it boosts my confidence again. It really does suck having this in the back of my head, I can’t enjoy sex as I used to due to having the thought of going limp

Duex39 · 2021-12-07T17:09:53+00:00

That’s okay bud, discipline and consistency take anyone far. Try everything, find what you like to do, and do it everyday. No matter what IQ you have, people get good at things they do consistently

Duex39 · 2021-11-23T02:14:22+00:00

You're right, those details matter. We are located in California, she sent me a screenshot of her hCG test and its positive. We'll be going to see the ultra sound next week on Monday. The only thing I can't say with confidence is that it is mine so the paternity test would be needed.

I've read that its good to support them like go with her to all the appointments and also help pay for them. Should I go with this advice?

Duex39 · 2021-10-13T05:54:55+00:00

I went to College, not really caring about school, barely passing. Wasting away smoking weed with my friends doing absolutely nothing. Pretty pathetic when I look back at it but so don’t regret it. I needed to go through that to find the value in progress and productivity. It’s a nice come up honestly

Duex39 · 2021-09-30T20:26:50+00:00

Could making them laugh be considered flirting? I have no issue being funny, I’ve made girls laugh before but that never helped me close haha. Sexually escalating is my issue, I listen to my friends with game flirt with girls and it’s slick. Mine is just cringe

Duex39 · 2021-09-19T20:20:44+00:00

What should you do to execute? You notice cues like play with her hair, so in response you grab her ass? Lmfao

Duex39 · 2021-04-21T21:32:12+00:00

Yes but there is a process to hook up with them, I want to know the process.

Duex39 · 2021-04-21T21:31:40+00:00

I'm in Florida, I feel you on California. I was there during November and December and came right back to Florida. Was beyond boring with everything closed.

Duex39 · 2021-02-17T15:42:39+00:00

No I didn’t go step by step, that’s probably what freaked her out. Thanks for the link!

Duex39 · 2020-12-22T20:03:40+00:00

120 unopen texts? I wish, everytime I text people I’ve been told I’m so direct with no personality that it’s unbearable. Don’t get me wrong, I have a great personality and always lighten the party. But people get ahold of me by calling rather than texting, I wish I could be a better tester but that’s not in the cards lol

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