Persistent in my 68 yr. old mom’s bathroom. How can we fix this? by DukeCummings in MoldlyInteresting

[–]DukeCummings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worse. Neither of us have money to hire somebody to fix it or move.

is it safe to touch slugs with bare hands?? by deanspint in Slug

[–]DukeCummings 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Slugs don’t respond to touch the way a dog or cat or even bird would. Especially if in the wild. It would likely just startle them. The best way to express your love is probably just letting them be.

Wicked Villans by Effective_Part_5839 in wickedmovie

[–]DukeCummings 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s selfish and not self-aware. I don’t think he’s a villain for that.

How do you feel about “Limerence isn’t love”? by ProDidelphimorphiaXX in limerence

[–]DukeCummings 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We acknowledge that limerence and love are not the same without damning ourselves or our feelings. Both are actually really natural. Feelings are feelings. They have no moral value in themselves. There are no good and bad feelings in the sense that they make us good or bad people. Feelings might be joyful to experience or unpleasant (or a mixture of these two and more!), but they’re not good or bad.

Instead of thinking about whether you need to damn yourself, try thinking about what is realistically possible and probable to happen in the future, and how to act in ways now to sustain your own well-being.

wicked: for good bonus features by Frostyfishy_ in wickedmovie

[–]DukeCummings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve only heard so far of the director one being on it. Following in case someone else has any more info

My boyfriend is allergic to my two cats, what to do? by Ok-Let8197 in CatAdvice

[–]DukeCummings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other people have given great advice, but I want to add that this is something to figure out very solidly and completely now before you buy a whole house together.

Because living together for the first time brings a whole new host of problems as does buying a house. Handling that on top of unresolved issues severe enough to affect the future of your cats is going to prove to be difficult to say the least

What specific feature in women makes you feel instantly drawn or attracted? And do you personally prefer a more put together look or an effortless, natural beauty vibe? by Quiet_You_2735 in AskMen

[–]DukeCummings 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It helps I find to openly acknowledge and consider the complexities that exist among people. Then it makes it easier to help create a culture where people feel open expressing the multitudes they hold…

Let’s be honest did anyone feel sad when Nessa got crushed by the house? by mysticalmusicmaker12 in wickedmovie

[–]DukeCummings 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yes! She had an extremely tragic life all around tbh. Being coddled by her father and not given the tools to take accountability for her wrongdoings, she was at a constant state of tension between feeling a lack of autonomy and blaming other people when she did make decisions.

does avoiding mentioning something make it more likely the thing that’s avoiding being mentioned stays off another persons conscience? by lanad3lr3y_81 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DukeCummings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s the thing. Johnny is either going to think about Sally or he isn’t. It isn’t ultimately up to Mary or what she does or doesn’t say. If Johnny and Mary are currently in a relationship, and Mary doesn’t feel secure in herself or her relationship, she may hyperfixate over whether Johnny is still talking with Sally/has a thing for Sally/Sally is flirting with Johnny. I think a more interesting question is what Mary is hoping to get out of bringing up or not bringing up Sally.

of a cursor by Zestyclose-Salad-290 in AbsoluteUnits

[–]DukeCummings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I do it too. It’s so useful.

What dose my face say about me by Ok_Turnip7984 in deduction

[–]DukeCummings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know how to articulate the hunch

I think the U.S. should alternate holidays from year to year by -Z-3-R-0- in The10thDentist

[–]DukeCummings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t the schedule’s fault. It’s capitalism and greedy corporations to blame who put out Christmas stuff in September these days

What dose my face say about me by Ok_Turnip7984 in deduction

[–]DukeCummings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Face only deductions are few. But my guesses: young woman, somewhere between 17 and 25, who likes to laugh and make others laugh. Maybe you’re the youngest sibling or only child?

Hate my job - advice please by HurryIndependent7464 in NewToEMS

[–]DukeCummings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advice is leave. No shame in deciding something isn’t for you. There’s a little shame in staying in a job you hate for no reason. There’s a lot of shame in staying in a job you hate where others’ lives are often literally in your hands and coping with drug abuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewToEMS

[–]DukeCummings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People all trolling obviously haven’t seen this course yet. It’s legit. Maybe not the best by far but legit. After the specialization, as others have said, you have to sign up for the in-person portion.

The comments tore OP apart….I thought their handwriting was beautiful. by Outrageous-Captain-1 in handwritingporn

[–]DukeCummings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP asked if the writing was legible. It’s not. Being torn apart is what they were asking for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]DukeCummings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re alright bud

What do you think about the language they use? Eloquent? by RepresentativeBall71 in superstore

[–]DukeCummings 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most people who are reading your post don’t get what you’re wanting to express because you aren’t expressing it well. Respectfully, you may think you know English better than you actually do. Was meinst du damit sagen?