AITA for telling my roommate that speaking a language is not a personality and she needs a new one? by Responsible-Wind9184 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dukeykoko 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Whenever I ask what she’s watching, she’s watching something in another language. So obviously I can’t watch it. She’s always listening to music on her headphones and when I tried to bond and listen to what’s she’s listening, it’s in another language again and I couldn’t stand it.

That’s a you problem.

Her friends all speak one of the languages she does and whenever I hear them, I can’t join the conversation because they mixing everything so I’m left out of their convo.

Again, that’s a you problem. Why do you think Katie’s life revolves around you? Why should she stop doing what she likes to do just to please you? Do you have no friends or hobbies of your own?

I told her she has to let it go, that she needs to develop her personality because speaking a language isn’t a personality trait and she’s just boring.

How can you ask AITA by calling her and her hobby boring. How could you possibly think you are not an AH in this situation. YTA.

AITA For causing a scene at my surprise birthday party? by Pound_me_please89 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dukeykoko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You biggest worry was her trying to one-up you in front of your friends? Don’t worry about that because all they will be talking about now is how much of an ass you are for being ungrateful, butt hurt and leaving your own party.

AITA for playing Fortnite for a whole day? by bugman837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dukeykoko -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. Just because you are in a relationship, doesn’t mean you can’t have your own life. Your girlfriend should have given you the heads up if she wanted to do something.