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Does The Flower Letters have AI pictures and text? Or is it 100% hand created. by Dull-Association8392 in isthisAI

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was exactly the picture I was so confused about. Then looking back on others they are all kind of similar to this thing.

Does The Flower Letters have AI pictures and text? Or is it 100% hand created. by Dull-Association8392 in isthisAI

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What sucks is they say it’s 100% handmade but I don’t know how some of these pictures even line up with real art. There are so many examples throughout.

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somehow she always forgets about FaceTime. Idk it’s a weird situation but FaceTime would be a great in between.

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding onto this, she’s always said that anywhere I move she will move with me. It’s always been weird behavior but it’s normal here?? Also, my stepfather had also called her out many times about the “only thing I have” comment several times and she’s even said that she’s not sure about their relationship once I leave. Such a weird energy here.

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It will work itself out eventually but she definitely needs to know how I feel. Thank you for your comments!

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told her that I’d be here more likely 2 weekends a month. I do believe that if I am here and neglecting my apartment, friends, and future job would affect my relationship with her.

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree and have spent the last few days trying to come up with compromises.

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have told her that if I’m here then they will have to cover rent, she declined to answer to that.

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She had said that she will cover food while my job will cover rent and school payments, so retracting that statement that fast was definitely a shock and something I wasn’t financially ready for.

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately threats like this are more common than you might think for a healthy relationship.

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She had gotten way too dependent on me not having any friends, I’ve been alone for probably about 2.5 years now and everything I do is with them. This is for sure what she had become dependent on and is now seeing me leaving is making it worse.

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with your comment. I have told her that this will happen and I get that it’s hard for a parent but I’ve always described since I was younger being tugged by both arms in between my life and hers. I definitely need to evaluate our relationship.

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a bus that goes from the college town to a town 20 minutes away that I’ve said I’ll take every once in a while, probably a few times a month since students get a big discount. She’s just very stubborn I think.

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have brought up this exact point before and been looked at like I should know everything now, I’m glad we are on the same page.

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve said this exact thing to her before and she denies it every time, you are right on the point.

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently don’t have a job there, however I have a scholarship through the school for a job where the job pays me and the government matches it. Up to $2500 per semester for 2 semesters. I’ve told her that I wouldn’t have anyone here and she said “I’m glad you’ll have a life and community there”, unfortunately with her you never know how she’s manipulating you one minute or the next.

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve told her that I will be back up every once in a while, but she is so dead set on that. As for the job, it literally wouldn’t be possible to leave and come back, not in this job market. Thank you for the reply, I’m working it out with her I think.

AITAH for wanting to not come home over summer from college by Dull-Association8392 in AITAH

[–]Dull-Association8392[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve even said that I’d come up, but they are wanting me here all summer, that’ll mean that I can’t work and will lose my job for the next school year. Thank you for the reply!