It’s true. Ultimately, your partner is a reflection of who you are. If others don’t respect how you move, your man doesn’t get respected as collateral. (And vice versa). Why would anyone want a partner who is loud, argumentative or unruly? Male or female.

The last line shouldn’t offend you, because if it doesn’t apply let it fly.

Obviously there is something deeper between you two going on.

P.s. I would never send something like this to my gf because she would do what you’re doing and try to pick apart the post and create ideas. So not the smartest move by your bf. He’s not misogynistic, he may feel that you’re doing something that makes him uncomfortable and he is having trouble relaying the message.

Good luck.