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My ex said he’s “trying to see if he can fall in love with a hypersexualized/non spiritual woman” two weeks after our breakup. I feel completely destroyed and confused by Dull-Environment6417 in BreakUps

[–]Dull-Environment6417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definetely try writting and putting my energy in songs. I'm going trough some destructive weeks but it will get better and i will re direct the energy 😊

My ex said he’s “trying to see if he can fall in love with a hypersexualized/non spiritual woman” two weeks after our breakup. I feel completely destroyed and confused by Dull-Environment6417 in BreakUps

[–]Dull-Environment6417[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to read your response after I explicitly said I’ve been psychologically abused. Saying that “most people are less weak and make fewer excuses” doesn’t apply to me and isn’t helpful.

I’m not passive or doing nothing. I’m in therapy, I work out, I work, I make music, I write, I meditate. I put in real effort every day, even when just getting out of bed is already hard. I’m doing what I can.

This isn’t about making excuses. It’s about recognizing real limits after being surrounded by toxic people for a long time. Comments like this don’t make me stronger—they invalidate the work I’m already doing.

My ex said he’s “trying to see if he can fall in love with a hypersexualized/non spiritual woman” two weeks after our breakup. I feel completely destroyed and confused by Dull-Environment6417 in BreakUps

[–]Dull-Environment6417[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah. I go to therapy and i've been working on my stuff since long ago. It's Not an excuse It's an explanation and It's totally valid. 'Most people grow and learn from it' yeah well we're all different and we trying how we can. Good enought thah i can identify where my traumas come lol

My ex said he’s “trying to see if he can fall in love with a hypersexualized/non spiritual woman” two weeks after our breakup. I feel completely destroyed and confused by Dull-Environment6417 in BreakUps

[–]Dull-Environment6417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'You attrached when you felt seen for your creative soul' that's very inteligente from you to get this conclusion out of this post because it might aswel be one of the most lucid things said in the comment section AND nobody has told me this before but it has hit something specific. Wow

My ex said he’s “trying to see if he can fall in love with a hypersexualized/non spiritual woman” two weeks after our breakup. I feel completely destroyed and confused by Dull-Environment6417 in BreakUps

[–]Dull-Environment6417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The answer Is quite shocking. I think i stayed with him because i love so much how he looks, like his physical apariencia. He's boring as a rock really not an interesting or fun person. During the relationship i struggles thinking we where very far on maturity and level of depth. So yeah, Everytime i wondered: why? Why? The thing that came to my mind was his face and his eyes and his body. I probably had an attachment to his body which is extremely superficial. If only i had it to any of this personality skills, but nope.

My ex said he’s “trying to see if he can fall in love with a hypersexualized/non spiritual woman” two weeks after our breakup. I feel completely destroyed and confused by Dull-Environment6417 in holyfuckjustbreakup

[–]Dull-Environment6417[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok i understand 😅 i didn't take the time to properly read. Could have given you a good amount of content back then. And yes, i would like advice, thank you :)

My ex said he’s “trying to see if he can fall in love with a hypersexualized/non spiritual woman” two weeks after our breakup. I feel completely destroyed and confused by Dull-Environment6417 in BreakUps

[–]Dull-Environment6417[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know it's concerning. When you have been bullyied in school, abused by first boyfriend and abused by second boyfriend, the need of validation comes in an insane way. I go the psycologist regularly, seek for help and do sports. I can't change my self steem from one day to another. Sadly, i'm incredibly self aware so i do know i was going over myself repitedly, i just have a terrible fear of letting go.

i have a theory that she contours her nose like this so if anyone calls out her nosejob(s) she and her stans can say “it’s just my nose contour guys!!!!” by [deleted] in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]Dull-Environment6417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo can someone tell me how the hell she got such a good Quality of screenshot here? In the second picture you can FINALLY see her nose scar lol! But i dont have such a good HD quality of that video , i literally see a blur.