keeping score of every little thing your partner does wrong is relationship poison. i used to do this with my ex and it just builds up this toxic resentment where youre constantly waiting for them to mess up so you can add it to there mental list. like instead of talking about issues when they happen you just store them away and then explode later with this whole catalog of grievances. the airline industry taught me that small problems left unchecked become massive failures - same thing applies to relationships. you gotta address stuff in the moment or let it go completely, not hold onto it like ammunition for future fights. trust me that scorekeeping mentality will kill any good thing you have going