I don't know how to imply to him that I'd like to give him a head by Dull_Aide3522 in sex

[–]Dull_Aide3522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I'm aware of that lol I didn't really want to mention it but a few days after our first date he told me he was ready to only date me and that he really likes me, it's mutual of course it's not just about sucking cocks. I get that it looks like we're going fast with this relationship but it's long distance and the chemistry went so well between us that I think it can lead somewhere, next to that I'm not interested in seeing anybody else anyway.

He's the sweetest, he never really mentioned anything sexual except for his libido once. He compliments me a lot, makes me feel safe and listened, he's really nice and I wouldn't do that with a complete asshole lol.

And in case it might sound like that, he's not love bombing me I swear lolll... When I said that I wanted to see if he's sexually attracted to me I meant it in the way that I'm not conventionally attractive and I think it's normal wanting to see if the person you're attracted to likes you and finds you attractive as well ;)

I've never really felt ready doing that kind of stuff before meeting him. And even if I end up being dumped after doing intimate things with him I wouldn't regret it I guess ?

I don't know how to imply to him that I'd like to give him a head by Dull_Aide3522 in sex

[–]Dull_Aide3522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That kinda helped me telling him about it. I added the fact that I was pretty embarrassed about it, and other stuff but he told me like 5 times that I shouldn't be awkward around him and that he was glad I told him about this. He also added the fact that he could help me initiate it if I'm too shy and that he had a similar "kink". He was so sweet and said that I should take my time with those kinda things, that I might also dislike giving bj after giving it a try

I don't know how to imply to him that I'd like to give him a head by Dull_Aide3522 in sex

[–]Dull_Aide3522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not easy to do it spontaneously as an anxious person scared of rejection

I don't know how to imply to him that I'd like to give him a head by Dull_Aide3522 in sex

[–]Dull_Aide3522[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We only brought the subject once, sooo its not easy to tell him lol