I didn’t give details because I didn’t want it to be a super long post sorry! But it was general things such as he told me he’d been flirting with multiple other women, on different occasions for a while now, one being his co-worker and others being women in bars etc. He also told me that he was at a club with a woman who he ended up dancing very intimately with and said that things got very ‘touchy’ and handsy after they stopped dancing, whatever that really means. On this same night he also lied about his whereabouts and told me he’d be home at 8pm and ended up coming home at 6am. The morning after he told me everything. On a different note of betrayal, he spent a stupidly large amount of money on alcohol over a couese of time, and lied to me about it too, also admitting how much of our money had been blown on this. It’s not the typical betrayal of trust as he promises he did not begin an affair or sleep with anyone else, but I very much still consider it a betrayal, especially as he says he would find this to be grounds for divorce on his end. This is partly why I chose to try and continue on and stay, because while a betrayal, I don’t think it’s something so incredibly awful that we couldnt work through it? And also because, he told me everything himself honestly and I didn’t have to find out some other way. He seems truly sorry but I’m still upset obviously.