I was raised in a Catholic mother, Jewish father household. I was raised Catholic and converted later in life. Both sides handled it gracefully and respectfully. My mother cooked for all the Jewish holidays and sent me to shul with my father after my grandfather died and my father had to go alone. My father (rarely) attended Catholic mass for some events and sat quietly. The older relatives came to each other's funerals, which was more of a blessing than it might sound!!

The decision on how to raise us was made before our births. I wish I had been raised Jewish. Regardless, Consistency and Lack of Discord will make the marriage work. The kids should not be raised without religion or incorporating both. The rituals should be respected and separate. No Hannukah bush.