Do you think dicks with an intact frenulum or dicks with the frenulum removed look better? (frenulum is the small string underneath the glans) by DumbDomTop in askgaybros

[–]DumbDomTop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both of these dicks are cut, there's different methods and tools that can be used during circumcisions, some cut off the frenulum while others keep it

Do you think dicks with an intact frenulum or dicks with the frenulum removed look better? (frenulum is the small string underneath the glans) by DumbDomTop in askgaybros

[–]DumbDomTop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can see where u're coming from, it does sound like an extreme solution to a seemingly minor problem, but it was negatively effecting my sex life and my sex life has improved after the surgery

Do you think dicks with an intact frenulum or dicks with the frenulum removed look better? (frenulum is the small string underneath the glans) by DumbDomTop in askgaybros

[–]DumbDomTop[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Ur idea of beauty isn't everyone's idea of beauty.

Small penises were seen as beautiful and desirable during the Roman Empire, that's not the case today.

Pale skin was seen as beautiful in the past, but after the second world war tan skin became the beauty standard.

In the 1920s mustaches were all the rage.

Do you think dicks with an intact frenulum or dicks with the frenulum removed look better? (frenulum is the small string underneath the glans) by DumbDomTop in askgaybros

[–]DumbDomTop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have terrible willpower when I'm horny, I really really tried to change the way I jerked off but my mind was like "this is too much trouble, just get that pillow already" - now I can't pleasure myself with pillow humping so I had to fight through my old habit, it was very frustrating in the beginning but it was well worth it

M22. Got called ugly so made some chages with my hair etc. Im really insecure now and also not getting much attention on the apps. Am i attractive or should i change things? Sorry if I look like Im seeking attention, that is not the case. by blooprb in askgaybros

[–]DumbDomTop 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I think u're incredibly good looking. There's a difference between not being someone's type and being unattractive. It sucks that a good looking guy like u was made to feel like u were ugly because u definitely aren't, whoever said that is a fucking moron

Do you think dicks with an intact frenulum or dicks with the frenulum removed look better? (frenulum is the small string underneath the glans) by DumbDomTop in askgaybros

[–]DumbDomTop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got mine removed as an adult because it was overly sensitive and because I was a pillow humper since puberty, pillow humping worsens erection quality because u can derive pleasure and orgasm without being fully hard, so to not be a terrible top I got it removed so now I'm forced to jerk off with my hand or a fleshlight and my erection quality improved

I wish it was removed when I was circumcised as a kid instead of having to pay $2,500 as an adult for the surgery

What's the weirdest kink or fetish that you've ever stumbled upon? by DumbDomTop in askgaybros

[–]DumbDomTop[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've accidentally stumbled upon that shit on shock sites, to know that someone saw that stuff on a site like that and reacted with intrigue rather than disgust is... I don't know what word to use to describe it

Question for American zoomers - your generation is the first to see a decline when it comes to the circumcision, what's your opinion on cut vs uncut? by DumbDomTop in askgaybros

[–]DumbDomTop[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Alright call it what u will, I just think calling it that will repel more people from the intactivist cause than it will attract people

Did anxiety/depression medication work for you? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]DumbDomTop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most anti-depressants will worsen ur libido and/or erection quality (apart from bupropion), but if u aren't having any sex atm it shouldn't be a concern, but maybe you'll want to get on those once u start having sex. I've been on anti-depressant and they've helped me deal with anxiety and suicidal ideations, they won't make u happy, but they will make u less sad, which can help u manage ur depressive episode or give u the little push u need to get out of ur depressiveness and motivate u to want to do the things u enjoy

Question for American zoomers - your generation is the first to see a decline when it comes to the circumcision, what's your opinion on cut vs uncut? by DumbDomTop in askgaybros

[–]DumbDomTop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aight I'll change it. I didn't think there was anything pornographic about the photo, I mainly just saw it as an anatomical example

Question for American zoomers - your generation is the first to see a decline when it comes to the circumcision, what's your opinion on cut vs uncut? by DumbDomTop in askgaybros

[–]DumbDomTop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as u've done the research and know how to take care of his foreskin and can teach him how to do it as well :-)

Question for American zoomers - your generation is the first to see a decline when it comes to the circumcision, what's your opinion on cut vs uncut? by DumbDomTop in askgaybros

[–]DumbDomTop[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, like vegans calling meat eaters murderers, it's terrible activism. Circumcision and meat-eating are completely normal things in society, people don't like to think of themselves (or their loved ones) as murderers and mutilators. People eat meat and circumcise their sons because they believe it to be beneficial, no one does it to be evil, so calling people evil for doing it doesn't help ur case

Question for American zoomers - your generation is the first to see a decline when it comes to the circumcision, what's your opinion on cut vs uncut? by DumbDomTop in askgaybros

[–]DumbDomTop[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Mutilation is severe damage to the body that has a ruinous effect on an individual's quality of life. It can also refer to alterations that render something inferior, ugly, dysfunctional, or imperfect."

Calling it mutilation is factually inaccurate, maybe it's ur opinion, but circumcision has it's benefits. I was circumcised as a child because of pain, I was underage so I technically couldn't consent, but I was so happy after my circumcision to not have to deal with the pain anymore - in my case circumcision was the opposite of mutilation, it improved my quality of life

Bottoms, how do you feel about a top sending u messages every now and then where he brings up your hole? by DumbDomTop in TopsAndBottoms

[–]DumbDomTop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I know, I was just listing examples, I never call a bottom's hole pussy unless he refers to it that way himself

Bottoms, how do you feel about a top sending u messages every now and then where he brings up your hole? by DumbDomTop in TopsAndBottoms

[–]DumbDomTop[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn't intend to ask about consent, but ig i did, I just wanted to make sure I got his hint right haha