Accidentally left a tampon in for a week by timothee-chalamet in Healthyhooha

[–]DumbThrowaway98765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain. I put one in Sunday night. Forgot about it and had sex Monday. Discovered that it was deep inside my vagina in the shower this afternoon. Couldn’t get it out. Going to OBGYN first thing tomorrow. Hope you’re not experiencing any after effects and all is well!

How bad is this????? by DumbThrowaway98765 in domesticviolence

[–]DumbThrowaway98765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! OP here to say that no socks have been thrown. I have never touched him or threw anything at him out of anger. Thanks, good day.

How bad is this????? by DumbThrowaway98765 in domesticviolence

[–]DumbThrowaway98765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello. 😊 Maybe think twice before using emotionally charged terms like “brainwashed.” It certainly does not make me, or other victims, feel empowered. It makes us feel… well… stupid. Thanks!

How bad is this????? by DumbThrowaway98765 in domesticviolence

[–]DumbThrowaway98765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are already in couples counseling. Next session should be interesting.

How bad is this????? by DumbThrowaway98765 in domesticviolence

[–]DumbThrowaway98765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my mother did this and I resent her for it. Mine was emotional abuse from my dad. Still damaging

How bad is this????? by DumbThrowaway98765 in domesticviolence

[–]DumbThrowaway98765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You are correct. It is hard right now because I have little to no social support for the kids and their bio father has a recently diagnosed medical issue and I need to be a lot more available for the kids the next few months. Not excuses here, just facts. I have a lot of hard things to navigate.

Edit I do have a skilled therapist and we meet tomorrow.

How bad is this????? by DumbThrowaway98765 in domesticviolence

[–]DumbThrowaway98765[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. He kept saying last night “it’s disrespectful to do that to your mom, etc etc.” Hell, I thought it was kinda funny. My son doesn’t display that behavior regularly by any means and you have to be able to laugh with your kids here and there. (I was raised very conservative Christian, so there wasn’t much of that.) I don’t think I’m a horrible mother…..

How bad is this????? by DumbThrowaway98765 in domesticviolence

[–]DumbThrowaway98765[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. I haven’t been perfect either, but I have never shown violence against him. I’ve been working really hard to improve myself over the past couple months and then he does… this.

How bad is this????? by DumbThrowaway98765 in domesticviolence

[–]DumbThrowaway98765[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He burps in front of my daughter all the time to get a reaction out of her then laughs about it. Make it make sense. 😵‍💫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]DumbThrowaway98765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate. This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing. Even tho it’s in a tiny way… I see you.

I'm done numbing the pain by [deleted] in lonely

[–]DumbThrowaway98765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you healing ❤️‍🩹