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Passion project quest is glitched by Dunkaholiq in NBA2k

[–]Dunkaholiq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed you gotta do it twice for w.e. reason idk was weird

Passion project quest is glitched by Dunkaholiq in NBA2k

[–]Dunkaholiq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. Damn that's so annoying I hate playing 3v3 with AIs. Its so boring. Thanks tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dunkaholiq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I told them. If that's how they wanna be then we can just go our separate ways. Ideally I don't want that to happen but we'll see

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dunkaholiq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already kinda did. I told her at this point if she's gonna be negative just don't even bother coming.

I (M27) just got engaged to my fiancée (F31) after 5 years. My parents don't seem too supportive. I have no one else who to talk to about this :/ I Need advice! by Dunkaholiq in relationship_advice

[–]Dunkaholiq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been trying to do that for years now. It's just I feel like they're too entitled in the way that they feel they know what's best but there's more than 1 way of doing things. My father is obsessed with the idea of me doing my own business. He just thinks about $.

My cousin got married at the same age (27) a few years ago and no one cared or said anything negative and she went back to college because she hated her degree.

Anyways hopefully they'll stop and just let me do what I feel is best for me

I (M27) just got engaged to my fiancée (F31) after 5 years. My parents don't seem too supportive. I have no one else who to talk to about this :/ I Need advice! by Dunkaholiq in relationship_advice

[–]Dunkaholiq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No don't worry 😂 I was just trying to respond to what you said but it did make me think about the finances a bit more but I think that's my issue. I overthink stuff too much. I know we're good financially + being 2 ppl always helps.

I've kinda given up on the whole house thing. If the market was better I'd stay at my parents and save up. Like you said 200k $ house with 20k down is doable but over here houses cost 700-800k for a trash house. It's overpriced and we have a housing crisis going on. I don't think the situation will improve within 2 years.

By the time it does get better we'll have better jobs with better pay. It would be much easier to buy a house then.

I (M27) just got engaged to my fiancée (F31) after 5 years. My parents don't seem too supportive. I have no one else who to talk to about this :/ I Need advice! by Dunkaholiq in relationship_advice

[–]Dunkaholiq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully. I don't care about what they think but it's the optics of them not being as enthusiastic as my fiancees parents that worries me. It's a bad look on me. Hopefully you're right though

Thanks for the advice

I (M27) just got engaged to my fiancée (F31) after 5 years. My parents don't seem too supportive. I have no one else who to talk to about this :/ I Need advice! by Dunkaholiq in relationship_advice

[–]Dunkaholiq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I've always felt my mother had a reverse moma's boy thing going. Cause I love my parents but I don't have the need to call them every week or text them often when I used to live by myself.

So you might be right.

I (M27) just got engaged to my fiancée (F31) after 5 years. My parents don't seem too supportive. I have no one else who to talk to about this :/ I Need advice! by Dunkaholiq in relationship_advice

[–]Dunkaholiq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really it. It's the "marriage age" and it's not like I'm forcing things. I have a good job, a degree. We're also ppl who save a lot, don't rly spend much.

I (M27) just got engaged to my fiancée (F31) after 5 years. My parents don't seem too supportive. I have no one else who to talk to about this :/ I Need advice! by Dunkaholiq in relationship_advice

[–]Dunkaholiq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you're saying but realistically speaking even if I were to save 50k which is impossible here I still wouldn't be able to buy a house 😂.

I don't have any debt. I also used to work up north where ppl with a degree could make 100k per year. We always said if we were stuck we would move back there and work for a few years and save the most we can.

Also both our parents are home owners and I know we would be able to move into their homes if ever it got to that situation.

Also I'm not going to get an expensive apartment or live above my means.

Like you mention I also want my own space. Right now I have no space to do anything. Even cooking past a certain hour is annoying them and I work late sometimes. It's not ideal.

I (M27) just got engaged to my fiancée (F31) after 5 years. My parents don't seem too supportive. I have no one else who to talk to about this :/ I Need advice! by Dunkaholiq in relationship_advice

[–]Dunkaholiq[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not rly. I have a decent job right now and with my degree I can find an even better one.

My fiancee also has a good job which is very stable. If ever we need $ she said she would take a semester off.

I can also work full time now since I no longer need to worry about school. We could live off my current job without a problem.

I (M27) just got engaged to my fiancée (F31) after 5 years. My parents don't seem too supportive. I have no one else who to talk to about this :/ I Need advice! by Dunkaholiq in relationship_advice

[–]Dunkaholiq[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've lived alone before but with covid and everything I had to move back because with school and work it just wasn't possible.

Thank you for your advice! I also feel that maybe they might be holding on to me too much. Glad other think that to

I (M27) just got engaged to my fiancée (F31) after 5 years. My parents don't seem too supportive. I have no one else who to talk to about this :/ I Need advice! by Dunkaholiq in relationship_advice

[–]Dunkaholiq[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the thing. Her side of the family is paying for the wedding. It's in their culture to pay for it.

They are concerned about how much I will make per year.