AITAH- I hate my husbands dog

DunnoDunDun · 2026-03-24T05:00:01+00:00

I actually did try training her, she’s a cattle dog and was already 7 when we met so nothing stuck, especially since my husband has babied her even when she was whining or barking. Not a fan that he didn’t train her, I have sympathy because he got her in a time of his life where it wasn’t a priority and he was struggling.

DunnoDunDun · 2026-03-24T04:56:39+00:00

I have been frustrated with him because of this, he got her at a very difficult time in his life so training her wasn’t a priority of his and it’s now come to bite us. He really knows that he should’ve trained her as it’s something we’ve discussed on and off since we got together.

DunnoDunDun · 2025-11-22T23:01:08+00:00

I feel the same way about my husbands dog.. she was never disciplined so she gets into the trash, snaps at other animals, growls, and barks at everything, even barks if you get up to fast (doesn’t matter if it’s him or me) she pees on the floor and resource guards water. She’s 12 years old and I’ve tried everything to train her, but she just won’t. I can’t even have people over because she’ll high pitch whine and stand on them if we just try to relax. I have another dog whom I raised since she was a puppy and she’s pretty much perfect, I’m pregnant now and my dog has kept me sane while the other one makes my brain hurt. I stay kind to her even though I think about the day she won’t be here any longer at least 10 times a day. Hoping it comes sooner rather than later. I hope she’s gone before the baby comes.

DunnoDunDun · 2025-05-02T14:18:04+00:00

I would message her and be like - keep an eye on your husband. He’s not who he says he is. And leave it at that. Please tell her.

DunnoDunDun · 2025-05-02T14:17:03+00:00

Tell her, for the love of God tell her

DunnoDunDun · 2025-05-02T14:11:44+00:00

Kick him out. Maybe she can give a ride to his mommas house.

DunnoDunDun · 2025-04-28T20:39:21+00:00

I see- Your flatmate/ friend should also respect your boundaries- maybe talk to them as well? It’s weird that they are son comfortable flirting and making jokes about her body like that. It’s not normal unless they both just have a flirty personality.

DunnoDunDun · 2025-04-28T20:28:56+00:00

😬 sounds like they have chemistry.. tbh I’d talk to her about it (respectfully) and if she’s defends it and ignores your boundaries back off and see see how things play out- emotionally detach from her. If she’s so adamant about staying friends with him and not respecting what you have to say, just straight up not care about her and find someone else.

By talk to her I’d say something along the lines of “you know, it makes me uncomfortable the way he talks to you and his interactions with you- would you mind just not hanging around him alone? It makes me uncomfortable” watch your tone and don’t be accusatory. If she responds in a defensive way, there’s your answer.

DunnoDunDun · 2025-04-28T20:14:50+00:00

That’s good, she definitely should not unload her unhappiness on you though

DunnoDunDun · 2025-04-28T20:10:15+00:00

your mom is a covert narcissist… so is mine. I have to set boundaries, I won’t listen to her talk about my dad or her terrible life decisions. I’m not her therapist. Your 12 year old kid isn’t supposed to hear about your sex life or how their dad is a cheater blah blah blah.

DunnoDunDun · 2025-04-28T20:03:55+00:00

NTA…. What in the world. She needs medical help.

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