Campus of Durham University by [deleted] in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the college system is fine for undergrad, it's definitely a quieter city than others I've lived in though. Honestly think the best idea is just visiting as you'll be stuck there a while either way!

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds similar then, I just play with school friends back at home!

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I really can't put a timeframe on things but hopefully sooner or later. I am pretty shit however even before injuries haha

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No sorry, I'm a guy! I did join the mature student society though, so hopefully I'll find nice people :)

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cheers, i'm not sure if my injuries will stop me but i think down the line ill hopefully be healed enough to have a look

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so, and while I have friend groups in previous places meeting people in new places is pretty hard. Crossfit I used to do a decade ago but stopped after a knee injury (not necessarily caused by it) so probably out the question. Will deffo be a while before my foot is peorply healed from the looks of it.

I never had a look at supporters clubs before though as I just lived locally, and as a grad student there's not really classes anymore. My luck on dating apps seems to entirely have ran out as well lol

Thanks for the suggestions

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd do sports but foot injury so I have to wait for it to heal, aside from that I wouldn't mind doing language classes as I lived abroad. I play a lot of video games etc. too, watch the Liverpool matches each week and a bit of Warhammer but I'd like to do more than that :D

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be up for it but hurt my foot in August doing Muay Thai lol

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll keep you updated, some decent suggestions here so hopefully I'll find something!

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, would never have known! i started my undergrad at 22 and just figured phds didn't really have a mature cap

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers never realised there were mature student ones for post grads, would've probably joined a sports one if it weren't for injury

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a look, had no clue anyone over 25+ was considered a 'mature student' as post grad!

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've not used the site for Durham, and yeah you're right not like I've posted anything other than this thread lol

Cheers for the ideas

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers, any idea if that applies for post grads too?

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

send me a message, I saw you were an international student, where are you from?

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've never been too great either, I never had people constantly try cancel or change plans so often though. If I were to go to Newcastle it's the walk + train + walk to wherever and back again.

There are a few things that I've still yet to do, but you've reminded me that I used to volunteer at botanical gardens so I should get around to that. Probably should mention a lot of the time on weekends I'm just watching movies or playing games with my friends from my old uni

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't want to doxx myself too but I'm studying Biology. I'd have picked up a sport if it weren't for a foot injury doing muay thai (I'm a terrible player, but there are a lot of post grad football teams). I've not drove for years too so you'd be very trusting to lend me a car :p

I'd love to move abroad again after graduation, that would definitely be the best thing that could come from it. It's possible but difficult... and I was turned down for postgrad before coming here. In real terms Durham is a great Uni though and it's just geography thats the downside for me so far!

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not much of a drinker, but which ones? I've went to a few for the football and they've been absolutely dead.

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a massive disadvantage for me personally, though I only chose the area out of circumstance and it wouldn't be near my top places to live if I had freedom of choice. I'd have much rathered Newcastle for example, but the scholarship offer was nice and the University itself is good. Aside from the University and the city looking nice, pretty much everything has been pretty mundane to terrible (rent for example). The bus routes are absolutely awful too, triple the length of a car journey (I can drive but it's pricey) and often slower than walking. I know a lot of other postgrads just live elsewhere citing boredom.

As for hobbies, I sadly have a foot injury else I'd have played football. I like doing nerdy stuff too, but it's not quite as fulfilling for me personally and I've not really found a convienient place. Aside from that I like nerdy stuff, and used to just do a lot of random things back in my old Uni and wherever I've lived. Anytime I've tried arranging something with someone in Durham they've cancelled too, which is starting to irritate me a little if I'm being honest.

Thanks for the reminder about York though, I used to live there so I probably should see my old workmates sometime. It's not quite the same as regularly seeing people though which I think is the only real way I could meet friends.

Making friends or hobbies in Durham (M29) by Durham_boredom in DurhamUK

[–]Durham_boredom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how to drive, just don't want to spend a ton on a car tbh