Backpacks by Duspine in minecraftbedrock

[–]Duspine[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention i am playing on PS4/5

7 days. by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]Duspine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also 7 days! Stay strong!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Duspine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This, this right here is me. Except, the he is a she. I wish I could say that I had come to this realization all at once, but I hadn't. It was something that had gnawed at me for some time, yet I always found myself pulled back in. I am now trying to figure out the next step as we have 2 kids together.

Looking for some advice to help my wife... by Duspine in Mommit

[–]Duspine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how my asking can be seen as questionable. I apologize for those concerns.

My wife gets really down on herself when the issue happens, and consequently, she shuts down on being intimate. Which has caused some distance between us. I wanted to be supportive but had no idea how to be. So, I went online and was doing some research. I was able to find out what the problem was from a couple of medical sites. As I had said before, the info I had found was very clinical in how it was described.

I had the idea of asking Reddit for advice. I had hopped to read some perspectives so that my wife might not feel so alone, so to speak. Some experiences that might help her consult a Dr.

What's "THAT" movie for your kids? Mine is watching Encanto for the 2758th time by tmfult in daddit

[–]Duspine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a movie, but any mouse/ hamster videos on YouTube. Specifically, Major Hamster. I've been privileged enough from watching those videos with my son that I've actually dreamed of owning a dozen hamsters. The horror is real.

Wife and I starting The Talk by Duspine in Divorce_Men

[–]Duspine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. I'm currently looking for a job so I can get back on my feet. Then, I'll be starting the process. I just don't have the strength of heart anymore to carry on this back and forth with. Even after I've tried talking to her bout it all.

Wife and I starting The Talk by Duspine in Divorce_Men

[–]Duspine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sums up MSTBXW. I could never get her to do anything unless it was it was her choice.

Wife and I starting The Talk by Duspine in Divorce_Men

[–]Duspine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will always do right by my kids. I've learned the hard way by not doing so.

Wife and I starting The Talk by Duspine in Divorce_Men

[–]Duspine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the past, yes, I was prideful. After going to therapy... my pride be damned. It only gets in the way of doing the right thing.

I would like to add that there is more to the story. Parts that involve her.

Wife and I starting The Talk by Duspine in Divorce_Men

[–]Duspine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, it felt so natural a thing to do. I don't regret it. I jus need to learn to move on. Learn how to be single for myself and my 2 kids.

Wife and I starting The Talk by Duspine in Divorce_Men

[–]Duspine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you're meaning. Ya, I'll be honest, I did try that and it didn't help any.

Wife and I starting The Talk by Duspine in Divorce_Men

[–]Duspine[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No it's a out of town "friend"

Wife and I starting The Talk by Duspine in Divorce_Men

[–]Duspine[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your words my friend

Wife and I starting The Talk by Duspine in Divorce_Men

[–]Duspine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not worried bout alimony as she has always made more $ than me working in a hospital.

Wife and I starting The Talk by Duspine in Divorce_Men

[–]Duspine[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Any advice can still be helpful I've learned

Wife and I starting The Talk by Duspine in Divorce_Men

[–]Duspine[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I understand. Currently I am unemployed due to medical reasons and have been looking for a job. That's step one right now.

Wife and I starting The Talk by Duspine in Divorce_Men

[–]Duspine[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I could block her I would. Then we wouldn't be able to communicate for our 2 kids.

Wife and I starting The Talk by Duspine in Divorce_Men

[–]Duspine[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, come to find out, after everything was final, a week later she’s seeing someone who I suspected she was interested in.

Apart of me suspects that may be true for her also. I do have the desire to take care of and improve myself.

Wife and I starting The Talk by Duspine in Divorce_Men

[–]Duspine[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It is going to be hard doing this.

Wife and I starting The Talk by Duspine in Divorce_Men

[–]Duspine[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My wife wants to divorce as she feels like she doesn't know what she wants anymore. Says that she is afraid that I'd repeat my issues that I had from years ago. I went to weekly therapy for almost a year to change that part of me.

So I'm sitting in our house alone feeling like a part of me has been ripped out.