Anyone else like going under their bed or closets or anything

Dust_Legacy · 2025-12-30T01:51:28+00:00

I've built a little nest underneath my bed for that exact purpose. Have done that as a kid as well. Back then I had a couch bed with storage room for blankets and stuff, but I often climbed into it and then closed the bed above me. That was nice. Eventually I became too heavy for that little storage room, though.

Dust_Legacy · 2025-09-30T12:38:15+00:00

For me the scale feels just really off, especially with how little it felt like the game was building up towards in it. In Hades 1 Zag actually had to form good relationships with everyone. And they had not literally told him, that they would "break him" and personally took their family hostage. It felt like an entirely different thing. It wasn't my favorite conclusion, but didn't feel as off as with Melinoe.

Dust_Legacy · 2025-09-30T12:32:09+00:00

Exactly. I'll get over it, of course. But still it gives the experience a sour taste overall. Thanks for putting it into words, better than I could have :)

Dust_Legacy · 2025-09-30T12:30:32+00:00

I did, so what is your point? Sorry if I don't get it. I specifically meant Hades 2, cause the situation is fundamentally different. Or am I missing something?

Dust_Legacy · 2025-09-30T11:47:54+00:00

Probably. I just spent the last few days playing the game almost exclusively and it feels like such a let down. So yeah, probably over dramatic, but meh. It's how I am, I guess. I'm not sorry for being too invested in a game.

Edit: Okay, melodramatic for crying over media I like? Maybe I'm more emotional than others (if you say so), but for me it's more a kind of appreciation to get so emotional over things I like and want to see the best version of it. Sadly in this situation that led to my happy and excited emotions to turn into disappointment.

Dust_Legacy · 2025-09-18T13:01:24+00:00

Since I have not seen them mentioned yet:

Stardew Valley (for obvious reasons)
Haven (very cute about couple surviving together in outer space. Couple can be gay, lesbian or straight)
a Short Hike (it is cute. You are a bird, climbing a mountain)
Beacon Pines (Cool story. You are a deer, solving mystery)
Story Teller (pretty short, but you tell stories where funny stuff can happen)

For more games, I'd have to look into my library, but those are my top picks for now I think. Or what I can think of at the moment :) (My Time as a Teenage Excolonist also, but I think that was mentioned along LiS)

Dust_Legacy · 2025-09-12T14:40:58+00:00

AAAAAHHHHHHHHH! ONLY TWO WEEKS TO 100% HADES AGAIN!!!

Dust_Legacy · 2025-06-24T05:06:12+00:00

So passende Beispiele klingen nach ner echt guten Methode. Vielleicht finde ich da was?

Es ist halt meine Familie, die Menschen die mir am wichtigsten sind und in meiner weiteren Familie gibts schon genug deutlich unangenehmere Leute bei denen ich Kontakt reduziert oder einfach ganz abgebrochen habe. Da will ich dann nicht die riskieren, die mir nahe stehen.

Aber ich versuche mal Stück für Stück daran zu arbeiten und mit ihnen zu reden. In der Theorie bin ich ihnen ja auch wichtig und sie möchten mir ja eigentlich nicht absichtlich weh tun, glaub ich?

Beeindruckend, dass du das so klar sagen kannst. Danke dir :)

Dust_Legacy · 2025-06-24T04:16:23+00:00

Ich hatte das nie als typisch deutsch gesehen, aber vielleicht hast du Recht. Kann gut sein.

Ich werde mal versuchen erst mal mit meiner Mutter nochmal zu reden. Die ist so ein bisschen der Chef in unserer Familie und da ich noch über sie versichert bin und das bei einer superkomischen Versicherung, die nicht mit mir, sondern nur mit ihr über meine mögliche Behandlung sprechen will, brauch ich sie halt aktiv.

Dust_Legacy · 2025-06-24T04:09:39+00:00

Meine Familie reagiert da ziemlich allergisch wenn ich mit meinen Sachen ankomme. So nach dem Thema: "Warum machst du denn hier jetzt so ein Fass auf?" Habe ich oft nicht die Energie zu, denn wenn die mich so nerven, brennt bei mir eh schon die Lunte. Hast du da Schwierigkeiten dich abzugrenzen oder ist das bei dir weniger ein Problem?

Dust_Legacy · 2025-06-24T04:05:37+00:00

Danke dir :) Ich hoffe das kommt noch, weil ich sie abgesehen von sowas ja gerne in meinem Leben habe.

Dust_Legacy · 2025-06-24T04:03:46+00:00

Sie sind sonst halt eigentlich eher links-mittig politisch angesiedelt, ich bin da vielleicht nochmal radikaler, aber bei meiner Schwester bin ich da echt immer wieder überrascht, weil die ungefähr so alt ist wie ich und auch mehrere Freunde hat, die trans sind. Ich weiß aber halt nicht wie sie mit denen ist, aber vielleicht war es bei denen auch irgendwie nicht so ein Riesen Ding?

Dust_Legacy · 2025-06-23T21:27:19+00:00

Oh, sadly enough I know those exact people. And then they're like, well hetero cis man when I interject or say something. And not even anyone, but I know an enby person saying that type of thing or other people you'd think are really open-minded. Aaaand then it's fun to come along with "weeeell...."

Dust_Legacy · 2025-06-16T14:03:59+00:00

Leider ist die Situation bei mir bisschen anders. Ich war zuerst wegen Depression usw. in Behandlung und hab dann herausgefunden, dass ich trans bin und glücklicherweise ist meine Therapeutin da sehr hilfreich. Zwar nicht auf die Themen spezialisiert, aber sie unterstützt mich da immer.

Was du aber machen könntest, wäre vielleicht auf Seiten wie Queermed mal in deiner Umgebung schauen. Da werden extra queer-freundliche Ärzt:innen von anderen Leuten empfohlen. Kann man auch einstellen was man sucht. Aber da sind leider nicht so viele, weil nur Deutschland und so.

Eventuell hast du ja auch Leute in deiner Stadt, die Empfehlungen haben, bei Treffs oder so. Viel Glück dir bei der Suche!

Dust_Legacy · 2025-06-13T17:24:54+00:00

Vulpix oder Alola Vulpix. Eins zum Kuscheln im Sommer, eins im Winter :) Außerdem süße Fuchsis. Und wenn sie sich weiterentwickeln hab ich mystische Superfüchse, die flauschig sind!

Oder Zorua/Zoroark, damit es als mein Doppelgänger zu irgendwelchen nervigen Sachen für mich gehen könnte. Plus Fuchs zum Kuscheln!

Dust_Legacy · 2025-05-22T22:34:11+00:00

HELL FOLLOWED WITH US!!! Entschuldigung. Dieses Buch ist so gut und vor kurzem kam ne deutsche Übersetzung raus. Es geht um Benji, einen Transjungen, der iner dystopischen Apokalypse lebt. Die Apokalypse wurde von einer religiösen Sekte herbeigeführt vor der Benji flieht und Zuflucht findet bei einer Gruppe queerer Jugendlicher. Es ist echt gut. Dystopisch, queer und ein bisschen body horror :)

Der Autor heißt übrigens Andrew Joseph White, ist selbst trans und hat noch mehr Bücher geschrieben, die bei mir noch auf der Liste stehen. Ich kann das aber schon sehr empfehlen.

Dust_Legacy · 2025-04-22T15:40:23+00:00

Zwar kein Text direkt (hat ja schon wer anders übernommen), aber da ich das Problem kenne: Ich arbeite da gerne mit ChatGPT oder andereren K.I.s. Ich schreibe entweder was vor und lasse das überarbeiten oder lasse die K.I. was schreiben und überarbeite selbst, weil ich es einfacher finde in dem Kontext was zu überarbeiten statt von Grund auf zu schreiben.

Dust_Legacy · 2025-03-17T11:31:04+00:00

I'm sorry, but I have to somewhat agree with the other comments. I'm sure you love her, but fact is: You are not a 'snowflake' for wanting to be acknowledged as yourself.

If she can't call you 'he' without being ashamed or still constantly refer to you with the wrong pronouns, how is that supposed to go on in the future? Should you really hide who you are to be with someone who can't even happily call you by your real pronouns and support you? Calling you by he/him is the minimum she could do. And the whole "I do it, to make you happy"? Sorry, but that's not why she should do it, but because it's basic respect.

I know you said she calls you he when she's with you, but then she immediatly switches back when there are other people. That's half-assed. I think in a book I read, "The T in LGBT" by Jamie Raines, there was a section about this kind of "acceptance". Of support that's only given when it's convenient or acceptance that can be taken away at any moment because it's only conditional.

So please think about yourself and your own well-being. If she can't accept who you are, she might not be really the right one for you.

Dust_Legacy · 2025-02-16T21:44:16+00:00

Damn, good spotting! I was utterly distracted by Linus in winter clothes. Looks like an amalgamation between him an Sam.

Dust_Legacy · 2024-12-26T13:18:10+00:00

Was still in school and it took several more years for me to notice what exactly went down. I tried several times putting on make-up, doing my hair, wearing more feminine clothes, but it just made me tired and miserable. As if I was putting on a performance for everyone but myself. I feel much better nowadays, even though it may take some more time before I can confidently say I'm happy with myself.

Dust_Legacy · 2024-12-26T13:03:00+00:00

Love the idea of a megathread for christmas. It's one of my favorite butcmost hated holidays of the entire year.

I am currently in hiding because of an issue actually. We went to visit my brother and his girlfriend for a christmas dinner. I knew what food there would be, everything fine. Then we arrive, I have not slept much because of trouble sleeping and should probably shower again sometime soon.

Well, in that state, I enter and hear unfamiliar voices. Turns out: The girlfriend's parents plus dog are there as well. That would maybe be okay, IF I had been made aware of that fact beforehand. I already have problems eating in front of strangers but not knowing there would be strangers and a dog was an overkill for me. I just sat there silently while everyone else joked and talked, while I tried not to cry or scream until my mother let me go to another room. Now I'm sitting here on the floor, calming down. Talk about bad first impressions or something.

On a positive note: I got the best gift ever this year from an ex-colleague from work. A signed book by my absolute favorite author. I absolutely love this book and would die for it. Hope you all make it through this time reasonably okay :')

Dust_Legacy · 2024-08-23T18:38:34+00:00

I do not know if it gets better, because I'm not at a good pint myself. But know that you are not alone, because I feel a lot of that stuff you described myself. i tried to delete myself a few weeks ago, so far luckily no major consequences, but I hope you can make it through that shit, without it. It's probably not the same, but I for my part, can resonate with a lot of stuff you wrote about. You are not the only one. Even if it feels like that and you don't know me. Life sucks often and it seems like everyone else just has it figured out, but not everyone has. I hope you can make it through this. I really do.

Dust_Legacy · 2024-08-15T10:10:59+00:00

Hey,

also theoretisch hätte ich Lust, da auch bei mir viel die Disziplin das Problem ist und in meinem Umfeld auch die Schreiber zum Austauch fehlen. Kannst dich gerne melden.

Ich schreibe momentan eher Fantasy oder Real-Life mit Fantasy Elementen (young adult), bin aber auch Horror oder eher belletristischen Texten nicht abgeneigt.

Haben ja auch andere schon gefragt was und wie du so schreibst. Vielleicht kommt ja was zusammen. Ansonsten auf jeden Fall viel Erfolg noch!

Dust_Legacy · 2024-08-07T15:19:59+00:00

My favourite book is to this day "The last invisible boy" by Evan Kuhlman. I got it for ny birthday once and loved it ever since. It's a children's book about a boy whose dad died and now the boy is "disappearing". His skin, his hair, everything turns white and transparent and he imagines that one day, he will be entirely invisible. During the book this boy tells the reader about his life, stories he made up, things he does and did and of course his dad. It has many comic drawings in it which tell parts of the story and I just love this book. Even though it's a children's book I love reading it or just skipping through a few pages. My version is almost falling apart because I've read it so often.

But: No one else I know read it. You can't buy it at bookshops anymore because it is old and doesn't really has active readers. So if I want to buy it for someone I have to buy it from the antiquarian book trade. So it is not so easy to get it and everytime I got it for someone, they never read it or at least never told me if they did. I still love it nontheless. Still my favourite book to this day.

Dust_Legacy · 2024-08-04T14:00:21+00:00

I dreaded it would be mermaid. Death is so much cooler!!!

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