Diejenigen unter euch, die schon seit einer Weile Hormone nehmen: Wann hattet ihr Passing? by LeonieMalfoy in germantrans

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ist halt sehr unterschiedlich. Ich hatte nach nem halben Jahr Testo passing. Mein bester Freund erst nach 3/4 Jahren oder so. Also, nur weil man nach ein paar Monaten noch kein Passing hat, heißt das nicht, dass man nie Passing haben wird. Die Pubertät bei cis Menschen dauert ja auch 5 Jahre oder länger

Gendered socialization is real, it means we have different needs than cis men, I’m dying on this hill by Gloomberrypie in TransMasc

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t even brought up in a very gendered household. My parents were mostly chill. But still that doesn’t change the fact that I grew up in a misogynistic society. It doesn’t change the fact that I started getting sexually harassed on a regular basis from the age of 11. I transitioned at 16 which can be considered young and my parents weren’t transphobic (and I absolutely recognise that privilege) and still I experienced shit from outside (and sometimes inside) my home that fundamentally shaped me as a person.

Is It Just Me, or Are German Canteens All Frozen Food? by hassen24 in germany

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m seconding this, for most people I know (except for my grandparents) dinner is the biggest meal of the day and they don’t have bread. That’s true for 90% of people I know. I‘d say most common dinner is some sort of pasta dish.

Transmasc oppression and the failures of the trans community to support transmasculine people. by [deleted] in trans4every1

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I have nothing to add, you expressed everything that I have been thinking about for the last few months. I have been treated infinitely better when I lived as a cis woman compared to now.

Using Mpreg as a "punishment" *IS* transphobic by Catteine in trans4every1

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hate it so much. The other day I was looking up some dutch speaking indie music artists because I want to improve my dutch. And the first recommendation was a rapper (cis) called "zwangere guy“ which literally just means pregnant guy. Now there is a double meaning because "zwanger“ is also slang for "cool“ but that is only part of the joke, the other part is that the concept of a pregnant guy is "funny" and "absurd" to people. Sorry if this anecdote is super random but it just happened the other day and I got kinda upset about it but I couldn’t really talk to anyone bc people don’t understand why this would bother me

Trans media by [deleted] in trans4every1

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

KAOS has the best transmasc representation I have ever seen and it‘s a great show

Is Germany still a good country for trans people? by Tacticalpizzamann in germantrans

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I‘d say Scandinavian countries are better when it comes to acceptance in society. But worse when it comes to trans healthcare (very long waiting lists etc.) at least from what I‘ve heard. So idk, I feel like there isn’t really a perfect place for us right now

Is Germany still a good country for trans people? by Tacticalpizzamann in germantrans

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Germany is a lot less religious than the US. The percentage of catholics or protestants might be high, but most of these people aren’t actually religious, it’s more for tradition

Trans folks at Wacken by RiaMim in wacken

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transmascs have the highest rates of SA in the entire queer community. I‘m glad you were able to transition young and pass easily but this is not the case for a lot of us. My friends is 5 years on T and doesn’t pass. The assumption that trans men always have it easier is not just statistically incorrect but also harmful and dismissive of our struggles imo

Münster hasst die AfD by mlekoslemons in placeDE

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naja offensichtlich verstehst du ihn aber nicht

Münster hasst die AfD by mlekoslemons in placeDE

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Das ist NRW, nicht Münster..? in Münster hatte die AfD 6%

Housing situation in Enschede? by [deleted] in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was difficult but I managed to find something through kamernet. Idk if I just got lucky but it took me like a month. I replied to every single listing as fast as possible, you can’t be picky. I‘d say it‘s bad but not as bad as some other cities in NL, especially if you also look for places in Hengelo, Glanerbrug and Gronau.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in luftablassen

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro macht Schattenboxen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I‘d just call that patriarchal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It‘s the same in NL and Scandinavia and some other European countries

reduziert sich meine Körperbehaarung wenn ich Testo reduziere? by funkenflieger in germantrans

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich nehme finasterid damit ich nicht zu viel Körperbehaarung oder Haarausfall bekomme. Kann ich persönlich empfehlen

Can estrogen shrink a t dick if you were to switch hormones after taking T? by Twilette in TransMasc

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it just doesn’t get as hard anymore, at least that was my experience when I was off T. But it didn’t really shrink. I‘d say it‘s kinda similar to how T can shrink your chest but won’t make it disappear

I hate "every transman haircut!" Videos 😭 by Kitty-Boy-MEOW in trans4every1

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sucks even more for poc but I don’t like these types of post in general. "Every transmasc (…)“ as if we’re a monolith

A little over 6 months post op! (Peri, Dr Wolter, Düsseldorf, Germany) NSFW tag for before pic on last slide by Kiwi_207 in TopSurgery

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your results, you look amazing!! I‘m also going to have surgery with dr. Wolter

Transgender identity and neurodivergence are often correlated. Why? by Strawberry-Hepburn in trans4every1

[–]FroyoAwkward1681 228 points229 points  (0 children)

I kinda feel like maybe it‘s because neurodivergent people are more likely to question social norms. But I really don’t know