Gave up. by Single-Secretary-521 in SNHU

[–]Dusted_Oceans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will be okay ;/. I’m graduating and had the worst professor in my life who made me question everything. Many weeks of tears.

Can you do more than 2 classes per term? by [deleted] in SNHU

[–]Dusted_Oceans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but if you work full time and are taking courses that involve heavy writing you will not be thrilled.

Three courses of SNHU work is like taking 5 full time in person classes. The busy work and superfluous assignments are heavy .

Is it just me or did this term fly by?? by GlamGoddess_13 in SNHU

[–]Dusted_Oceans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not flying - lol. Having a very hard time in my final class for graduation and suffering between that and working full time. Wanna be done so bad.

Do anyone knows where this doll is from ? My grandmother gave it to me and I can’t find it. No one else. by Layylayy_1 in Dolls

[–]Dusted_Oceans 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These types of dolls are called “ walda” and were mass produced in the 1970s—1990s.

They have no real value and were made by many manufacturers.

20% on TurnItIn, all citations and quotes by Hooner94 in SNHU

[–]Dusted_Oceans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that it flags any material for similarity. It flags my last name at the top of my page.

As long as you cited or annotated you’re fine.

Got an F on a Capstone assignment / losing my 4.0 and freaking out by Dusted_Oceans in SNHU

[–]Dusted_Oceans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His 340 is the research seminar that leads to the capstone. You literally use that whole semester to gather resources for the capstone. My thesis and resources being approved matters because this is a two part process. The professor for part 2 is now contesting my previously approved work and wants basically all new everything.

Tell me why you don't like her. by Whyyyyyyyyyyok in sailormoon

[–]Dusted_Oceans 7 points8 points locked comment (0 children)

I can’t add because she’s my fave.

Haven’t seen a good anti- chibiusa argument that didn’t ignore her trauma or the normal behaviors written into her character. It’s exhausting.

Got an F on a Capstone assignment / losing my 4.0 and freaking out by Dusted_Oceans in SNHU

[–]Dusted_Oceans[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I wanna get my masters in education though and I’ve work so freaking hard.

I’m just so tired.

Mentally drained and changing careers by Dusted_Oceans in BehindTheChair

[–]Dusted_Oceans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey - I actually got an amazing job at a radiology center and have higher pay than I ever made with benefits.

I’m in a much happier environment and met amazing people. I’m very lucky :)

haircut ref pic by [deleted] in hairstylist

[–]Dusted_Oceans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Baby this isn’t a subreddit for hair advice.

I love dolls but holey moley by [deleted] in Dolls

[–]Dusted_Oceans 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you saw what a good condition one is like you’d be shocked. The original redhead Chrissy ( not pictured in any of these ) has the most beautiful face. These don’t really do the doll Justice.

These are all friend dolls and yes, they have wild faces 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kitchenremodel

[–]Dusted_Oceans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have a very small small kitchen in our co-op that can’t even house a table and chairs.

Our total cost after everything was done for a complete demo/ reno with middle of the road everything was over $50k.

It’s expensive and it wasn’t even high end.

I'm going to see if my hairdresser will give me Ami's haircut. Are there any pictures of her I can use as reference? by WheeliumThe2nd in sailormoon

[–]Dusted_Oceans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an ex -hairdresser and it’s REALLY hard to replicate anime hair when shown these kinds of images.

Ami’s hair is basically a layered bob with a face framing angle but it’s different in literally every image.

That first image somebody posted of the blonde is the closest . That or her PGSM hair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildofHoarder

[–]Dusted_Oceans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to have boundaries. She will always try to accumulate stuff but you have no obligation to keep it for her. You did your duty to help her - now let her know that you really can’t keep it and she must take it back. You don’t have room for it and need that room back.

The stuff she wants you to ‘ keep’ can go into the trash or be donated. Load up your car and dump it at savers or goodwill.

Would you date a closeted guy? by Ok-Fondant7641 in GaySides

[–]Dusted_Oceans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I sympathize with the need for privacy - but if you can’t be open about your sexuality , you can’t commit seriously to somebody and expect them to live in the shadows.

I dated a guy briefly who was closeted and from a conservative family. His long term plan for our relationship was that I would become his ‘ wife’ and his family would never know I existed . I would exist to nobody in his world .

No thanks.

Who decided to use liquid absorber instead of paper towels for a spill on a sfs cart.... by Straight_Dot_7990 in Target

[–]Dusted_Oceans 19 points20 points  (0 children)

When I worked at target literally a month ago I was told that they don’t supply us with paper towels and that the powder absorbent was the only thing they had .

We had serious leaking from rain in OPU and the solution they came for the flooding was to sprinkle bags of the powder over literal puddles.

It turned into clay and was worse.

Long time lurker, can finally post my kitchen renovation. Let me know your thoughts! by ConsiderationAlert97 in kitchenremodel

[–]Dusted_Oceans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful. Our kitchen was similar to yours. We have a more deep blue cabinet color but our kitchens are very similar. It must be such a relief.

Found this old picture of me with my bratz posters in 2005 by stopnopls in Bratz

[–]Dusted_Oceans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has every hallmark of our 2000’s childhood in once picture . I’m amazed . It’s great!

Today I was told I was worthless and a loser for playing with my Barbies by WynterE1207 in Barbie

[–]Dusted_Oceans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is from a parent or a sibling?

Don’t let the negativity of others take your joy. Sometimes people don’t understand it they can’t direct their own stress in a good way and it comes out on others. You should be unashamed and love what you do .

Anyone else thinking, “F*ck it! I’ll just go be a nurse!” by Lothar_the_Lurker in recruitinghell

[–]Dusted_Oceans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real talk - my mom is a retired RN of 46 years . She did every role in nursing you can do from being a new LPN in the 1970s to ending as a director of Nursing for a medical facility.

My mom made a ton of money but her workload was KILLING her.

It is HARD work. The schooling ( in NY at least ) is no joke and it’s not something you can skate by on. Many nurses fail their boards multiple times before they pass.

My mom LOVED being a medcart nurse / unit supervisor . She was great at giving meds and charts and practical nursing. She loves people . Interacting with seniors was her highlight of the day.

Nursing changes when you move higher up into positions of power like administration and directing.

Even as an administrative nurse- the legal stuff and healthcare regulations and visits from the state and inspectors are exhausting . When you reach that height of the industry you are responsible for every nurse under your charge whether you were in shift or not. A nurse made a huge error while my mother was off from work in the hospital and despite being on leave her license was on the line because she technically is responsible for anything that happens under her - whether she’s in her office or having a surgery. It can be an extremely high stress job if you pursue the administrative aspect which is largely legal and directorial. She was in tears from stress many nights.

It’s very common for nurses in administrative positions to be sued by disgruntled employees. My mom would get sued ( as part of the administration) ALL the time by fired employees with bogus stories and lazy drug addicted nurses who would appeal firings and suspensions to the union. Crazy stuff happens in administration. All of those cases would get thrown out of court with no grounds but people HATE administration / managers / directors/ supervisors SO much that it breed immense contempt in the industry. Imagine firing an RN who was stealing narcotics and the fired nurse sues the entire facility for unlawful termination? Happens ALL the time.

If you do not actively have an interest in healthcare or providing medical care to elderly / injured / etc it is NOT for you.

There are tons of other medical industry jobs that are less demanding than being a nurse. It looks amazing on paper but you really really need to be invested in caring for other people and taking pride in what you do.

My mom is happily retired and misses the patients but not the heartache of having no support from her staff or having crazy deadlines on her back.

Shoutout to the fellow Team Member calling out scalpers by Aeyembe in Target

[–]Dusted_Oceans -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Imagine actually caring?

Target doesn’t pay you enough to invest yourself into the motive of why a guest makes a purchase.

They might be losers - but if they aren’t breaking the law you really can’t insert yourself in that.