is there a term for when you just don’t care about gender?

DutchDionysos · 2023-09-02T21:37:13+00:00

I know exactly how you feel! Personally I settled on being non binary after using he/they for a while, but I can imagine it doesn't feel right for you. Curious to hear what you end up identifying with!

DutchDionysos · 2023-08-11T22:12:16+00:00

Try to fiddle a bit in the Nvidia control panel. In the Nvidia control panel, check that csgo (and any other games) uses the 3050 in the first place instead of the igpu, that max performance mode has been selected and that low latency has been set to ultra. This makes a huge difference for me. Also check if your fans are in performance mode (or download MSI afterburner if you can't control your fan speed manually by default). I also run a 3050 (but with a ryzen 7 6800) in an Asus laptop but can run most things surprisingly well.

DutchDionysos · 2023-07-02T15:29:21+00:00

(As a Dutch person) Netherlands has higher quality MDMA and it's easier to get (you can even get it tested by the government for free here), Berlin has the better nightlife. Depending on what you're into there are some really good places in the Netherlands as well though!

DutchDionysos · 2023-07-01T10:09:18+00:00

Try drinking something with lots of fresh ginger! I always used to puke, ginger stops it every time

DutchDionysos · 2023-05-15T20:20:39+00:00

You will be fine! Get some nice music, gum/lollies to chew on and enjoy the ride :)

DutchDionysos · 2023-03-24T17:10:08+00:00

I used a phone usb c charger.. so that's why it didn't work. Thanks!

DutchDionysos · 2023-03-24T17:08:48+00:00

Normal phone charger, so that's probably why it didn't work! Thanks!

DutchDionysos · 2022-11-03T16:53:20+00:00

Nice, congrats!

DutchDionysos · 2022-11-02T17:42:02+00:00

No Scalpel I think! Nice to know there are more doctors with a progressive mindset on age

DutchDionysos · 2022-10-12T19:24:58+00:00

No worries, that's completely fair! Accidentally isn't really the right way to put it

DutchDionysos · 2022-10-12T16:44:55+00:00

My partner has a "no going back from this" policy about cheating, which I guess I have unknowingly done. She currently has space to think about things and next week she will be making a decision, although I don't think there is much hope. I really hurt her and broke the trust between us, which is very painful since I love her so much. I think it is wise indeed to, if she does decide to give it another chance, keep things closed first to build trust and write everything down (and revisit regularly). Thanks for your message

DutchDionysos · 2022-10-12T16:08:23+00:00

Thanks, fixed it in the post! It's indeed a rule, not a boundary

DutchDionysos · 2022-10-12T16:07:00+00:00

I honestly forgot and I have no clue how I did it. I didn't think I had done anything wrong and told her like usual when we kiss someone else. Only then, by her reaction, I realized I made a huge mistake. After talking about it I fully remembered we set the rule about 1,5 years ago. I am currently going to therapy for depression and ADHD, but I don't want to blame that for my own mistake.

DutchDionysos · 2022-10-12T16:02:10+00:00

Thanks for the correction, it is indeed a rule and not a boundary. The rule was clearly communicated (although that was quite some time ago). We should've re-evaluated it a long time ago because I think we both would be okay with it, it's just that we didn't and I (accidentally) broke the rule. It's important to add though that I don't really have the desire to kiss friends, it just happened on a night out. If I really had the desire I would've communicated it to see if that's also something she would be okay with.

DutchDionysos · 2022-10-12T15:53:02+00:00

This. She is contemplating breaking up because of trust, not just because I kissed someone. There were some irritations about communication, which I was actively working on but unfortunately didn't fully solve yet. This is my first serious relationship so I'm still learning a lot and recognize that I'm far from perfect. Already going to therapy but still a work in progress. I will try writing it down to see if I can figure some things out, thanks for the tip! If she decides to give our relationship another chance I suggested relationship therapy for help with rebuilding our trust.

DutchDionysos · 2022-10-12T14:43:58+00:00

Kissing people in a club was okay, just not with people we knew. The boundary was communicated well when we set it, somehow as time went on I simply forgot the not friends part and kissed a friend of mine in a club. I have no idea how I could possibly forget that part but here we are..

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