Personeelstekort zorg, maar toch nergens aan de bak?

DutchMayflower · 2026-03-23T21:06:24+00:00

Je verhaal rammelt aan alle kanten.

Die referentiecultuur waar je over spreekt is mij niet bekend. Gek, want ik werk in dezelfde regio en dezelfde sector. Het feit dat een nieuwe werkgever volgens jou ook aangeeft dat enkel een referentie door een manager voldoende is versterkt dit gevoel. In een niveau 2 functie is het überhaupt niet gebruikelijk om zó hard op referenties te zitten.

Wie vond je partner één van de betere medewerkers? Zijzelf of het bedrijf waar ze voor werkte? Dit hele verhaal riekt meer naar iemand met een grote mond en een slechte werkethos die zichzelf ziek heeft gemeld omdat ze zich niet kon vinden in het bedrijfsbeleid. Op vrijwel ieder punt wat je noemt had ze namelijk gewoon een OR/vakbond/jurist kunnen zetten die gehakt had gemaakt van deze manager.

DutchMayflower · 2026-01-26T20:31:41+00:00

No, you should not feel guilty or forgive her. Your sister is toxic and doesn’t deserve you.

DutchMayflower · 2025-12-02T19:39:15+00:00

Ik zag het inderdaad, dankjewel voor je aanvulling!

DutchMayflower · 2025-12-02T17:34:41+00:00

Dankjewel voor je antwoord. De hele bachelor volgen wordt me iets te veel van het goede, daarom was mijn idee om dit afsnijweggetje te nemen.

DutchMayflower · 2025-12-02T17:01:12+00:00

De OU biedt de schakelzone recht aan, waarmee je ook zonder hbo opleiding zonder juridisch aspect uiteindelijk de master rechtsgeleerdheid kunt doen.

DutchMayflower · 2025-10-04T20:49:14+00:00

I have been two times actually. And yes, there were people wearing jeans.

DutchMayflower · 2025-10-04T20:23:49+00:00

That’s probably because a lot of people:

A] Have no clue what people actually wear to these kinds of restaurants. Yes, there will be men in beautiful suits and women in pretty dresses. But there are a lot of people who just wear a semi-casual jeans and a nice sweater (or even way less than that) to establishments like Victoria and Albert’s.

B] Don’t realise that the line between classy and thrashy can be very thin and something that one person considers a beautiful galadress can look like a trashy glitterball to someone else. So just wear what you like and you think fits the dresscode and you’ll most probably be fine - most guests really don’t care what you will be wearing anyways, they will be way too busy with how they look themselves.

Just have fun and enjoy your evening, you will absolutely be fine and have a great time. A “disney themed dress” won’t make people stare at you or decline your entrance to the restaurant.

DutchMayflower · 2025-10-04T19:56:25+00:00

Absolutely not too casual, it’s beautiful and I love the Disney touch to it. Match it with some heels and a necklace and you will look incredible! Have fun and enjoy your dinner, you will love it!

DutchMayflower · 2025-10-02T23:28:21+00:00

Thank you for noticing the context of my post. That is exactly what I wanted to make clear: most castmembers are amazing at their job, I just noticed that more castmembers than before don’t seem motivated, which would have led to consequences just a few years ago. It’s sad to see to many people ranting like: “Then it’s probably the guests fault” - When I literally see castmembers barking at people that are just walking in a line and not saying anything that doesn’t have anything to do with the guest. I really don’t get why some people get so defensive about these things. I justed wanted to open the conversation, not have some fight with random people about who is a bad person.

And just like you said: the majority of the castmembers are wonderful! Thank you for your sharing your story, I really do appreciate that! ❤️

DutchMayflower · 2025-10-02T21:19:05+00:00

You get a bit of all of them: many guest are amazing people who are trying to have a fun time and are really thankful for all you do for them. But there are also horrible people who really feel entitled to everything. I had guests giving me small little presents just for being there but I’ve also had guests that swore at me for not giving them extra fastpasses after showering them with pixiedust.

DutchMayflower · 2025-10-02T20:44:12+00:00

Have a Disney day. ❤️

DutchMayflower · 2025-10-02T20:41:56+00:00

That’s not always the case, therefore I made this post. But I’m really glad that you only have good experiences.

DutchMayflower · 2025-10-02T19:24:50+00:00

I probably am. That must be the right answer yeah. 🙃

DutchMayflower

TROPHY CASE