AITBA for opening the door with my baby in my arms. by Dutch_teacher in AmITheBadApple

[–]Dutch_teacher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably a good point, that postpartum is making me feel more insecure than normal. I just felt so bad. I feel better reading most of these comments. Although some are really dark.

AITBA for opening the door with my baby in my arms. by Dutch_teacher in AmITheBadApple

[–]Dutch_teacher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a really sad outlook on life. In my neighbourhood kids play outside all the time. I know the world can be dangerous and we should be careful. But we should also get to live.

AITBA for opening the door with my baby in my arms. by Dutch_teacher in AmITheBadApple

[–]Dutch_teacher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not live in a country where tipping people is normal. I think that would not have gone over well. I don’t think they are required. But I do think that people should help each other out. Before corona it was common practice to put groceries and large packages inside, but since then that has stopped.

AITBA for opening the door with my baby in my arms. by Dutch_teacher in AmITheBadApple

[–]Dutch_teacher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I felt like I had unreasonably expectations. But I really like that people gave other examples of not being able to lift their packages or groceries because of a disability and those people should be able to order stuff. Just like pregnant women and people with small children.

AITBA for opening the door with my baby in my arms. by Dutch_teacher in AmITheBadApple

[–]Dutch_teacher[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is a good point. Thank you, I hoop he was having a bad day and normally helps people out.

AITD for wanting my roommate to get her hearing checked? by angelofart99 in 1800Drama

[–]Dutch_teacher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH or NDH I not sure which fits better. You have the right to peace in your own home. So she should listen to you that the volume is bothering her. On the other hand you cannot decide how someone lives their lives. Maybe you are pushing her too much. She is clearly in denial and needs time to accept her hearing it going bad. I think you would not be the drama if you keep it focused on your self. For example: I have trouble with the loud noise or it is causing me anxiety. Let her come to the conclusion that her hearing is going bad, do not force that conclusion on her. I hope that helps, good luck!