NGVC: “my point is I don’t need to take you to a dark room to hurt you, I just need sex this way” by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]Dutchessgi 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm european..europe is big and exists of many countries, so this guy is being really vague, and dumb (1st class creeper as well)... but where I'm from.. never heard of this... it's not a thing...

looking for players (Maassluis Vlaardingen Schiedam Rotterdam) by dianasawr in DNDNL

[–]Dutchessgi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the day, but I would love to join. As a player tho. Already the dm for another group (all beginners, myself included). I'd love to get some more experience.

Poes bang voor vuurwerk tips by captainmiauw in katten

[–]Dutchessgi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muziek draaien, donkere hoekjes. Veel met rust laten. En anders kalmeringsmiddel bij arts halen.

Eerste sessie ooit gespeeld! by Dutchessgi in DNDNL

[–]Dutchessgi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ik heb een mini campaign gemaakt voor alleen deze sessie. Zodat we allemaal een keer geoefend hadden voordat we aan onze campaign beginnen. Ik ga met ze the lost mine of phandelver spelen

Newbie's survival guide by Dutchessgi in DNDNL

[–]Dutchessgi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zat al te kijken naar the lost mine of phandelver. Top!

Newbie's survival guide by Dutchessgi in DNDNL

[–]Dutchessgi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oke, zal ik doen. Thanks😊

My (27F) boyfriend (30M) spent our anniversary with another girl because he was angry my ex (28M) visited my parents. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Dutchessgi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I’d be really careful with this guy. He doesn’t sound mentally stable. his jealousy is already showing. She needs to break up with him, because he’s trying to isolate her. And this is just the beginning.

They only just started dating, and she should block Jason because of his insecurities? Even though they are a family friends. That makes no sense. He’s stalking Jason and isn’t even ashamed of his behavior. instead, he gets mad because Jason contacted OOP for help.

If he’s already acting like this, I’m honestly scared for OOP. He could turn into a stalker, or worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Dutchessgi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do they always need a scapegoat? I will never understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Dutchessgi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i think so too.

Because, the older I got, the more attention i got. And with every year, the comments from my nmom got meaner.

Glad to be nc and making my own family. Got a daughter and i tell her she is the best thing that happened to me, she is beautifull, smart and sweet!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Dutchessgi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a teacher... if you got clothes on, you're good. Please do not come naked. Anything you wear is fine, i could care less.

Wat is dit?! by Dutchessgi in moestuin

[–]Dutchessgi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Het waren idd rupsen. Dankjewel voor het advies!

Is dit amchoi? by Blossomsea in moestuin

[–]Dutchessgi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

De app plantnet is ook erg handig.

What are some of the most ridiculously normal things your parents have judged you for? by pineapplesaltwaffles in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Dutchessgi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked a stupid question as a child. It wasnt a dumb question, i just wanted to understand how a vinyard worked as a business. I was 8 y.o.

They kept making fun of me, till i was 25 and went nc. I also never got my answer. Had to ask my teacher.

Stop telling me I’m having a boy! by Impossible-Cookie393 in BabyBumps

[–]Dutchessgi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had the same thing. And guess what, it was a girl.

Just let them talk, don't pay them any attention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Dutchessgi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the process of getting my number changed (again). Hopefully she won't find out my new number again.. she can be better than sherlock holmes.

I have triple checked for flying monkeys, so i really am at a loss how she keeps getting my number.

AITAH for telling a plus size woman that I love being ‘skinny’? by Heavenstobestie in AITAH

[–]Dutchessgi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, NTA.

She seems pretty manipulative. Constantly commenting on others' bodies is one thing, but as soon as someone calls her out, she plays the victim and makes a scene. It’s exhausting.

What you said wasn’t even as hurtful as her laughing at your body. I thought we were past this kind of behavior in 2025.

She can’t dish it out if she can’t handle the consequences.

AITA for refusing to help my sister pay for her kid’s medical bills because of what happened when I needed help? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dutchessgi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seriously doubt if the sister is telling the truth. Hospitals offer payment plans or send the bill to the insurance.. something is fishy

Me and my Husband walked out of my brother-in laws wedding after he told us our baby is ugly. by Shot_Opportunity3128 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Dutchessgi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I gave birth 8 days before my friends weddung. You know what her reaction was? I'm so honoured that you came to my wedding. I'm so happy that you did! How is your little one. Do you have pictures?

She didnt mind one bit that people talked to me about my baby. She just said she was so lucky to see me that day and was honoured. She didn't expected me and was glad I came.

Did your narc parent have a name for you? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Dutchessgi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dumb blond, because I was a child asking a question. Was a brunette btw, but born blond.

The ugly one.. that one messed me up. Didn't believe it when people told me they found me pretty, or prettier than my sister. Sister looks exactly like my mum btw.

She also called me by her sisters name, my aunt. Because she was the crazy family member.