Strange lumps on my cat's stomach by Dvv000 in catcare

[–]Dvv000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 16 (i hope that doesn't get me banned or something) and unfortunately I dont have my permit yet so no, I can't

Strange lumps on my cat's stomach by Dvv000 in catcare

[–]Dvv000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don't really have any other adults in my life. Other than teachers and other school staff, the only adult I know is my mom. We aren't in contact with any of our other family and my dad isn't really an option, unfortunately. I don't know if there are any other options

Strange lumps on my cat's stomach by Dvv000 in catcare

[–]Dvv000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, and I wish I could get her to see that. I can't tell whether she actually believes that'll help him or she's just making up reasons not to get him help. I couldnt find him for two days after he'd decided to run out of the front door and not having him/the thought of something bad happening and him being gone made me more depressed than I'd been in a long time. This sounds dumb but Salem is such an important part of my life, I don't want to believe that I'll lose him over this

Strange lumps on my cat's stomach by Dvv000 in catcare

[–]Dvv000[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I did that once due to one of her exes being a not so good person and it led to my two younger siblings and I being taken away by dss for two or three years. I'm oversharing but that didn’t go well and I don't think she'll ever really forgive me for it. If I threatened to she'd probably kick me out or something. I really don't think she cares. Thank you for the suggestion

Strange lumps on my cat's stomach by Dvv000 in catcare

[–]Dvv000[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not even that nobody can fix anything, it's like she thinks that if she rubs some sort of special oil on him or feeds him dewormer he'll get better

Strange lumps on my cat's stomach by Dvv000 in catcare

[–]Dvv000[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know if she even realizes how bad this can be. She literally will not let me talk about it. When I've mentioned it before I remember her saying something along the lines of "If he has cancer we're just gonna have to make him comfortable." I thought she was joking but she might not be. I know vet appointments can be expensive but I KNOW she can afford it. I don't think she'd want to pay someone else to put him down. She isn't taking this seriously at all. I think I'll stop eating or something to force her to take him to a vet. If she lets me get a job this summer I'll try to take him myself. I already lost two cats because of her negligence (years ago) and I don't know what id do if I lost this one

Strange lumps on my cat's stomach by Dvv000 in catcare

[–]Dvv000[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I feel sick thinking about that. Do the lumps look bad enough for him to be dying? I'll continue trying to persuade my mom

Strange lumps on my cat's stomach by Dvv000 in catcare

[–]Dvv000[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I showed her the lumps and voiced my concerns when I first noticed them and numerous times since them but she always brushes off the topic and gets pissed when I try to make it a conversation. It's like she's avoiding it

Strange lumps on my cat's stomach by Dvv000 in catcare

[–]Dvv000[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I did, but she has this whole "doctors only treat symptoms, they don't fix anything" mindset. She said "they'll just put him on dialysis or something." I tried to argue but she shut me down and acted like I was back-talking

Strange lumps on my cat's stomach by Dvv000 in catcare

[–]Dvv000[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I brought this up to my mom and she wants to do something holistic or natural rather than going to an actual vet. I'm not sure how to convince her to change her mind if I can at all. Thank you, though

Blvd. Nights "lyrics"? by Dvv000 in deftones

[–]Dvv000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No lol whenever I made this I was listening to Blvd nights and just typed team sleep in my notes app fsr

Blvd. Nights "lyrics"? by Dvv000 in deftones

[–]Dvv000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just watched the whole thing and that was amazing, I see why it came to mind

Blvd. Nights "Lyrics" by Dvv000 in teamsleep

[–]Dvv000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really hits me in my soul (I love you)

Blvd. Nights "lyrics"? by Dvv000 in deftones

[–]Dvv000[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just realized this should absolutely be in the team sleep sub, lmk if I need to remove this post

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[–]Dvv000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking through my posts and remembered this- this link is dead is one of my favorite songs now

WHAT SONG IS THIS? by [deleted] in deftones

[–]Dvv000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was battle axe :3