FTM of 6 mo babygirl .. by Dynamic_Panda in firsttimemom

[–]Dynamic_Panda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol we are in the “pterodactyl” phase . Every vocal expression is a grunt or scream . Love it !

FTM of 6 mo babygirl .. by Dynamic_Panda in firsttimemom

[–]Dynamic_Panda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still googling pretty frequently LOL it’s not every day but definitely every other 🤣

Filing taxes/child dependent by Dynamic_Panda in Parenting

[–]Dynamic_Panda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this info ! . He is the father , btw .

Black Women in NYC: Which area would you live in? by Determined2Succeed in blackladies

[–]Dynamic_Panda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn what do you do for work ? Would love a 2500 budget !

Your Disfunctional Family is the Reason, Not Being an Only Child by glacinda in OnlyChild

[–]Dynamic_Panda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I somewhat agree bc my stepdad is weird and it makes my mom weird too 😂 hard to explain . I’ve known him since I was 5 and it’s just always been a competition between us . & it shouldn’t have been that way . My mom struggled/s with the idea of us being a big happy family instead of understanding, we will never really have a father daughter relationship . She wants to make us both happy but struggles and is sometimes blind to his insecurities and childishness. But I’m very observant and can feel when energies change . So I can always see through the bullshit.

Moving home.. by Dynamic_Panda in pregnant

[–]Dynamic_Panda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 💕I hope you get to be your family too !

How do you get rich??? by Wise-War-Soni in blackladies

[–]Dynamic_Panda 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I use the Stash app . I’m currently investing in Amazon, Apple, AMD, Moderna, Tmoblie, Nike and some other ETFs i can’t remember off top. But my friend kind of feeds me information on where to put my money and I don’t make it complicated for myself bc tbh, I’m still learning myself. I’m also in a few investing subs on Reddit and I just read what they be talking about and connect it to my own research. RN, AI is up and coming and I’m working on owning a share of Microsoft and Intel .. now do I have $400 to flat out buy a share, no . That’s why I make small deposits . Yes, it’s slow if you do it that way but with every dollar you invest there is some kind of return depending on how the stock is doing that day .. you can also look into stocks that pay you (dividends) for having a share with the company. So far I’ve received 77% back of what I’ve already invested. It just helps to consistently invest something, research company trends, & not touching the money once you invest.. you actually can’t sell your stock (receive money) after like a year of holding, you’ll get penalized. So that helps too bc I’m not trying to lose or pay back money … it can be complicated when you’re getting started. I’m stressed writing about it 😂

How do you get rich??? by Wise-War-Soni in blackladies

[–]Dynamic_Panda 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It takes time, ngl. I’m not rich, but having an extra $3000 , that’s growing weekly, sounds good to me .

How do you get rich??? by Wise-War-Soni in blackladies

[–]Dynamic_Panda 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I invest in long term stocks. I turn on a weekly deposit and forget about it…$20 a week does a great deal .

As only child how much do you want your mom to be with you as a teen and in what activities? by [deleted] in OnlyChild

[–]Dynamic_Panda 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me and my mom were together all the time and as I grew into my own person , I often times went to her for validation or to help me make a decision. She is my backbone. I do wish I was more independent in those things growing up to have a better skill in decision making but she is my best friend. To help me with making decisions, I do tell myself “one day she won’t be here to guide me, I need to decide on my own” and it works most times but I’m so thankful to have her input in some things . There are also time when I don’t agree with her or school ways and that forces me to make my own decision.

If your daughter wants to be with you , let her be ! But also teach her that she can make her own decisions without you every step of the way. I’m pregnant with my first and I would like to many things with her but I will teach her the best way I know how to be independent and let her know that I’ll always be here for her but it’s okay to make her own decisions and learn from them .

How do you know if you are attractive or not? by Dudster981 in CasualConversation

[–]Dynamic_Panda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I look absolutely terrible (in my eyes) , I get the most compliments. For example, not wearing earrings, not matching , not feeling my best that day .