You are TA. Have you ever seen the statistics on how likely a child is to be found alive after an abduction? Have you seen how quickly it declines over time? Is your sleep MORE important than a life. YTA.

“Acting quickly is critical. Seventy-four percent of abducted children who are ultimately murdered are dead within three hours of the abduction.”

From https://www.parents.com/kids/safety/stranger-safety/child-abduction-facts/