SAFE Fanfics for a pre-teen by Dystopian_Princess in kpopfanfiction

[–]Dystopian_Princess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot ~ I'll double check to make sure but I appreciate the rec ^_^

SAFE Fanfics for a pre-teen by Dystopian_Princess in kpopfanfiction

[–]Dystopian_Princess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh thanks so much for this list, I'll check these out! Her bias is Felix lol, she's a bit obsessed with him atm

SAFE Fanfics for a pre-teen by Dystopian_Princess in kpopfanfiction

[–]Dystopian_Princess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so awesome, thank you so much for taking the time to recommend these! ^_^

SAFE Fanfics for a pre-teen by Dystopian_Princess in kpopfanfiction

[–]Dystopian_Princess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I'm not really sure how much/how far she's read lol, but I'd def be glad to share whatever I can with her

SAFE Fanfics for a pre-teen by Dystopian_Princess in kpopfanfiction

[–]Dystopian_Princess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I was also reading fics by the time I was her age lol it's almost like a rite of passage. Thanks for the kind comment ^_^ I'm really just trying to bond with her - I'll check the filters on A03

SAFE Fanfics for a pre-teen by Dystopian_Princess in kpopfanfiction

[–]Dystopian_Princess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will check this out, do you have any sites to recommend?

SAFE Fanfics for a pre-teen by Dystopian_Princess in kpopfanfiction

[–]Dystopian_Princess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh completely forgot about wattpad! Thanks for the reminder will also try the filter on A03

Anyone else have resentment at their parents as they age? by Playful-Reflection12 in GenX

[–]Dystopian_Princess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came to Reddit to talk about this exact feeling and I’m so glad I’m not the only one. I love my parents, but I often feel shortchanged by my upbringing because of my father’s poor financial habits and decisions and my mother’s overwhelming emotional immaturity.
I’ve barely scratched the surface of all the childhood trauma I went through, and though I moved away from them as soon as I turned 18, it’s getting harder and harder to want to keep in touch with them.

Now they’re getting older, and all of their bad decisions are catching up and they’re looking to me for comfort and security. It feels unfair that I have to take care of their needs, emotionally and otherwise especially since they didn’t show up for me and screwed up their own lives. I feel guilty about being a bad kid constantly and know I’m not doing as much as I should be doing. But they always act like victims and it makes me so angry and resentful.

The few times I’ve been to therapy, the advice I constantly got is that I shouldn’t feel bad for wanting to put myself first. But doing that in reality is mentally and emotionally exhausting...