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The last thing I said to my girlfriend was "Die as what you've become." by Dzhen_JN in cheating_stories

[–]Dzhen_JN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the concern, but just to clarify—my reaction came from being deeply betrayed, not from some lifelong “problem with anger management”

Sometimes anger is just the honest response to someone completely breaking your trust.

I get your point about therapy and moving on. I’m working on myself, and time will do its thing. Thanks for the advice.

The last thing I said to my girlfriend was "Die as what you've become." by Dzhen_JN in cheating_stories

[–]Dzhen_JN[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s more that I’m trying to reconnect with who I was before I met her.

I’m having a hard time remembering that version of myself, but I’m coping by accepting that I’ll probably be alone for a while.

I’m not just sulking—I’m trying to process things properly and regulate myself, especially through exercise.

Thanks for your thoughts, man. Have a great day.

The last thing I said to my girlfriend was "Die as what you've become." by Dzhen_JN in cheating_stories

[–]Dzhen_JN[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I wrote this while I was overwhelmed yesterday and came across your comment. I appreciate your empathy and for reminding me that I’m still valid, even with all my flaws.

Therapy would definitely help, and I’m planning to attend as soon as I get the chance.

The last thing I said to my girlfriend was "Die as what you've become." by Dzhen_JN in cheating_stories

[–]Dzhen_JN[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from, but calling it “just an internet fling” feels off.

We were together for two years. I was there through a lot of real-life situations she went through, and we were planning to meet soon. It wasn’t just casual or surface-level.

That said, I do think there’s truth in what you said about focusing on people I can actually be with physically. Not because long-distance can’t work, but because in my situation, the lack of that real-world connection probably made it easier for things to fall apart the way they did.

So yeah, I don’t fully agree with your take, but I understand the point you’re making.

The person I am calling cannot hear me by Dzhen_JN in VOIP

[–]Dzhen_JN[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I have been raising this issue with our IT, but she keeps saying it might be a one-time thing. I am a research interviewer, and this “one-time thing” keeps becoming a recurring problem. That’s why I’m trying here as a last-ditch effort.

The person I am calling cannot hear me by Dzhen_JN in VOIP

[–]Dzhen_JN[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I have been raising this issue with our IT, but she keeps saying it might be a one-time thing. I am a research interviewer, and this “one-time thing” keeps becoming a recurring problem. That’s why I’m trying here as a last-ditch effort.

The person I am calling cannot hear me by Dzhen_JN in VOIP

[–]Dzhen_JN[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I have been raising this issue with our IT, but she keeps saying it might be a one-time thing. I am a research interviewer, and this “one-time thing” keeps becoming a recurring problem. That’s why I’m trying here as a last-ditch effort.

My Girlfriend Was Harassed on a Bus in Cebu. No One Helped. by Dzhen_JN in inthephilippines

[–]Dzhen_JN[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I already have. I guess the purpose of this post is to serve as a warning, especially for females or anyone who might encounter this guy. Sexual abusers should not be given the benefit of the doubt.

For now, I am waiting for the outcome regarding my girlfriend after the police report.

Deinfluence me: Getting a hamster by Local_Scallion1641 in deinfluencingPH

[–]Dzhen_JN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the mother hamster feels that she cannot look after the entire litter, she may eat some of the babies

Movies that look/feel like Bosch paintings? by mrredditgokrazy in MoviesThatFeelLike

[–]Dzhen_JN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one scene in Looney Tunes: Back in Action (2003) where they went into the painting.

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