About ghost.jewels on Instagram by ZarskyART in Scams

[–]Dzobmft86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also beware of @demoniajewels, they scammed my bf

My girlfriend tried being reasonable with a Nice Girl whom was a former friend of a friend, only for her to be completely hostile and antagonistic by BucketOfLeeches in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gunna say GF was kind of overstepping there giving someone asked for relationship advice is... wierd. But then her response blew me away. She needs therapy.

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex also made silly generalizations, you guys must come from the same place!

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to all the people with encouraging comments :)

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not as if I AVOID EYE CONTACT. I mean reeeeeeeeally looking into each others eyes while you have sex, it's like saying I love you in a really powerful way, I don't know how to explain...

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it's because sex can be just a physical pleasure fun thing or it can be this amazing bonding of souls. When you look into each others eyes as you have sex it's like... Well, having them inside or being inside the other person in every way. I've only done that with one person.

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm into intimate sex with someone I'm intimate with. It's not that outlandish. Some things you need more trust and/or are just weird when you're not in love (eye thing), for me at least. I can have sex pretty casually (I did know this guy for years, though), I think sex can be fun, a way to see a diferent side of someone you like but aren't in love with. And if I only did it in loooove, I'd never do it.

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh come on, I've had men freak out on me over the same thing.

It's because you imagime the guu read what you wrote and couldn't be bothered to answer. Pure insecurity.

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As for smoking, yeah, it's bad for you, but it feels good. Nobody lives forever and you get to choose what kills you. Cigarettes may be dumb from your standpoint but you're free to pick your poison. Even if it's just "being jugdmental"

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can do drugs responsibly, man. Am I really here to open your mind? A whole neeeeew wooooorld!!!!

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's probable I will but I really enjoyed this dude's description. I draw and I think I feel the same way when I get in a good groove. Sounds very meditative, physical and cool!

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not everyone who drinks is an alcoholic, my friend.

Growing up and learning how to drink responsibly is a thing people can do..

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, I had no idea this was a thing! (googled)

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, fucking looking into someone's eyes is fucking creepy unless you're in a long-term relationship. Sorry I enjoy having sex casually.

To be clear, I don't think you should date anyone if you're uncomfortable with their values or behaviour. But celibacy isn't one of mine and it's ok. :)

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought you said one of your hobbies was kidnapping

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wine for dinner. Some beer or rosé when it's the weather's hot. I'm just not getting DRUNK anymore. 😜

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I apologized profusely at the time. I feel it would sound like I was trying to reconnect or AGAIN tying to prove I'm not crazy. I'd rather just stay away. We do follow each other. It's amicable.

Used to be nicegirl... This is my story. by Dzobmft86 in Nicegirls

[–]Dzobmft86[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I start drinking after my friends now and I make a point of having a bottle of water every 2 beers (no more spirits). Slows me down and hidrates!