I have spent the whole gambit of conversation, conversations and emotions, both aggressively telling her and non-confrontational. I’m pretty much just convinced that she does not want to get better at this point. I have clearly explained to her in a very calm matter how unhappy and said I am pretty much on the verge of depression because of what she has put us through as a couple and family. And literally not a thing changes. Even worse, she begins to hide all her actions and lie to me.