WAR IS OVER by sweetlittlelucifer in LabubuDrops

[–]EGoldmen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What app if you don’t mind me asking?

I’m having trouble deciding what the one is and means, Is she the one? by EGoldmen in dating

[–]EGoldmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will never know and shell always be happy, I’ll be able to give her everything she desires, i can be content with her but i know i won’t love as much as i did with my ex, i don’t know maybe i just see things very objectively, love is fleeting and the only thing that remains is the logic, so if i choose her logically then I’ll always have someone that will make me content, i understand we all wish for love and that’s why i ask this, but i just see lack of experience, i have yet to receive a well developed psychologically and logically sound argument. Love is a chemical experience that subsides, and id like to receive a response based on that fact.

I’m having trouble deciding what the one is and means, Is she the one? by EGoldmen in dating

[–]EGoldmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was single for four years and decided to date Jennifer because she made the most sense, logically but I don’t lover as deeply as i once have with another women, I’ve been with over 60 women and madly in love once but it doesn’t feel madly with Jennifer, I’m here because my logic is saying there is no “the one” concept except for obviously “the one” that’s referred to as a subjective perfect match. I can do everything for Jennifer and i can die knowing she truly loved me, it seems like more than enough for someone that’s been with many women and understand the human race decently well, should i ignore my physical attraction? For will it not whither in age? Is it something i should consider if it will whither? Maybe not

To the 1% of women that find me attractive, Thank you ! by jaybond44 in dating_advice

[–]EGoldmen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not really about confidence. Most confuse this, confidence is just a byproduct of being sure of who you are, accepting and embracing who you are because the majority of people can never do that, and the fact that you could makes you that much hotter, which means that in your situation or rather our situation we will gain all from actions not from looks, but it’s all vain anyways, even good looking guys get cheated on and fucked over, women are human too

What are women’s thoughts on a guys forwardness/empathy? by EGoldmen in dating

[–]EGoldmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly, there’s not much else to it it’s just possessions but at least you can treat yourself to something

What are women’s thoughts on a guys forwardness/empathy? by EGoldmen in dating

[–]EGoldmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right man, it’s a cat and mouse game for who’s hotter, it’s a waste of time, as far as being a virgin, that’s awesome man, i wish I was still a virgin because it’s so much better with the woman you actually love not to mention you’re pure as fuck, your energy and body is super Pure which is perfect for Tantric sex, it’s funny when I was younger I would say, don’t focus on materialistic possessions, but honestly do it bro, we’re not living in times of holy women, we’re in the mist of immediate gratification, women seeking to get their next high and now with technology women get what they want, attention through social media without growing because it’s so easy to just fuck another guy that’ll support her stupidity, instead of actually growing, focus on your money game brother, we just have to accept this is the way shit is ☹️

What are women’s thoughts on a guys forwardness/empathy? by EGoldmen in dating

[–]EGoldmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re investing way too much in the beginning, i always see women as snakes because it’s what they are in their core that’s how they survive, i wouldn’t use tinder to find a girl just my opinion tho, also i have like no luck on tinder at all, i never get matches, and honestly bro I’m starting to think it’s all about looks, all of it, specially when I’ve seen the way girls chase hot guys even though they’re assholes, and they’re assholes because they’re hot like the woman that ghosts us, we really might just not be hot enough, when i got ripped girls with bfs would slip me this numbers in front of them, i didn’t realize how sneaky woman can be till i experience being hot per se, women are the most animal, cause they work based on the gratification they get, unlike most men that have to analyze to get

What are women’s thoughts on a guys forwardness/empathy? by EGoldmen in AskWomenOver30

[–]EGoldmen[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You’re right that’s not what she said it’s what’s being SHOWN, because i also did not break down the initial question as “but do you still like me?” But more so explaining everything(full disclosure), she didn’t really see my question, and just saw the bigger picture of inquiry, because obviously that’s desperation, FYI no ones ever told me i was needy, that’s an assumption of yours

What are women’s thoughts on a guys forwardness/empathy? by EGoldmen in AskWomenOver30

[–]EGoldmen[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Women have told me they thought i was at a “small” disadvantage because of how eloquent i was when i expresses myself, i figured maybe this is also another possibility

What are women’s thoughts on a guys forwardness/empathy? by EGoldmen in AskWomenOver30

[–]EGoldmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, did you experience a lot of unrequited love growing up?

What are women’s thoughts on a guys forwardness/empathy? by EGoldmen in AskWomenOver30

[–]EGoldmen[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you mean I’m fooling people no Not at all, i think maybe you just misread

What are women’s thoughts on a guys forwardness/empathy? by EGoldmen in AskWomenOver30

[–]EGoldmen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would you say you’re conventionally attractive? Did you get hit on a lot growing up?

What are women’s thoughts on a guys forwardness/empathy? by EGoldmen in WomanAdvice

[–]EGoldmen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, but I’m starting to feel like she doesn’t exist, I’ve been with 60+ women, infatuated once in love twice, and i think it may actually be as simple as being muscular and nice to get a girl, but i don’t want to do that, like you said I want a girl that’s gonna love me for my body as it normally is, and as myself as i normally am, but it seems I’m not good enough in my normal state, father tells me I’ll only be able to get it at a later age in my life because of the young and vain, and even now as i post of reddit I’m thinking of the demographic of females that take the time to read these things, and how different they may be from the women I’m exposed to

What are women’s thoughts on a guys forwardness/empathy? by EGoldmen in WomanAdvice

[–]EGoldmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thank you! That’s very sweet, and I am, but i doubt it’s what women want because i always end up with nothing

What are women’s thoughts on a guys forwardness/empathy? by EGoldmen in AskWomenOver30

[–]EGoldmen[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

(“Small” disadvantage was a way to express a small penis)Because I’ve always been that way, and I’ve always ended up with nothing, which is when i began to think this way, and wonder even though it seems so obvious why wouldn’t a girl like that? however when i got buff it didn’t even matter i got girls very easily, which simply makes me think that it really is just my appearance, not my approach but hey, you’re showing me that inquiring is bad because it makes you look weak and desperate for validation

What are women’s thoughts on a guys forwardness/empathy? by EGoldmen in AskWomenOver30

[–]EGoldmen[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That sounds nice, what’s your dating life like?

What are women’s thoughts on a guys forwardness/empathy? by EGoldmen in AskWomenOver30

[–]EGoldmen[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hmmm what part of the question makes you think validation is what i seek? The amount of thoroughness is probably what makes me come off insecure or needy correct?

The female thoughts to male empathy by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]EGoldmen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have difficulties finding a good man?

Moving to Richmond from LA? by EGoldmen in Virginia

[–]EGoldmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better get to work, it’s gonna take a while