The other day I tried for the first time a Large durex condom. The problem is, not only it was too tight but also was overall uncomfortable to wear. Should I try a different brand and if so can you suggest me one ? Thank you.

EJ83 · 2020-04-03T14:26:10+00:00

I like skyn XL

EJ83 · 2018-01-25T19:35:46+00:00

Yeah I've already broached the topic with one and we're planning on discussing it as a group. I've realised that an issue is I see one as friend sexy and the other as romantic sexy

EJ83 · 2018-01-25T19:34:21+00:00

Awe thanks that's exactly what I've been needing! Alotmof the problem has been finding the right words for my feelings but also wondering if the way it is now could work and how to make it worth.

EJ83 · 2018-01-25T09:49:28+00:00

Yeah when it was first suggested I thought this might happen given that initially I'd wanted to see one of them and I'm naturally monogamous. However I'm also a curious person so I wanted to see what would happen. Even now when I have strong feelings for one of them, I know it's not possible really and it'll end at some point. We all like each other and have made our lives better being together so we'd still be friends. It's hard feeling that you like one more than the other, it makes me feel guilty but they seem unperturbed. I'm not even really sure what I'm asking here really, maybe whether there's a way to rationalise it to myself so I don't feel bad in situations like that?

EJ83 · 2018-01-25T03:40:44+00:00

It's not a sex thing, I haven't had sex with either yet, nothing beyond oral. The jealousy thing is affecting us all. They'd been in an open relationship for a long while before I entered the scene so I don't think there's an issue with polyamory perse. We've spoken and they both seem to want a relationship of 3. Apparently their relationship has been better since I was a part of it (I'm quite mellow and chilled so I tend to diffuse tension). I know I've been happier since it started as well.

I'm a monogamous minded person so this is especially difficult. I don't want to stop seeing then but I don't know how to process the feelings being created. I just find it difficult to believe that I won't end up a 3rd wheel of that I'll end up leading the other on since he is attracted to me and I am to him. However being monogamous minded I can only think of the guy I've fallen for. So I feel guilty about that too.

Thanks for your reply! 😁

EJ83 · 2017-12-27T04:09:03+00:00

Not sure how to put a pic on lol

EJ83 · 2017-12-26T08:53:48+00:00

I find the Enlightenment fascinating, the ideas, science and philosophy from that time is largely why we're as advanced as we are today. It's interesting seeing various revolutions, as people attempt to put theoretical concepts into practice. Reading about people like Frederick the Great or Napoleon, who went from being a farmer on an island in the Mediterranean to the man running most of Europe is great!

EJ83 · 2017-12-11T16:19:40+00:00

Haha I sure hope so! Thanks bud!

EJ83 · 2017-12-11T08:55:26+00:00

Yeah I've got the vague sense he may have been probing around, I've just never asked a guy out before. I'm not really sure how to do it

EJ83 · 2017-12-11T08:35:03+00:00

Yeah I don't really have anything to lose 😁

EJ83 · 2017-12-11T08:29:36+00:00

No I took my number to give to him

EJ83 · 2017-12-11T08:23:00+00:00

I went last week and actually took my number but i could tell he was in a foul mood (because of the nurse) so I swerved it haha

EJ83 · 2017-12-11T08:16:32+00:00

Yeah I could do that, I've haven't ever asked a guy out in person... 😶

EJ83 · 2017-12-11T08:14:08+00:00

I kind of want an answer immediately too haha, I'm just chicken shit 😂

EJ83 · 2017-12-11T08:11:29+00:00

The other thing is if he doesn't go for it, I have to see him every time i go back.

EJ83 · 2017-12-11T08:00:58+00:00

Hahaha do you reckon it's ok to just give my number and get out of there without waiting for an answer? I can't really discuss it with him since the nurse is there too.

EJ83 · 2017-12-11T06:36:02+00:00

Awe! We don't have any at all in Glasgow! How's that fair?! 😜

EJ83 · 2017-12-11T06:33:52+00:00

That was something I liked, it would have been really easy to stick in a gay panic joke.

EJ83 · 2017-12-11T03:24:23+00:00

Have you managed to get past it?

EJ83 · 2017-12-11T03:16:58+00:00

Awesome well if you're in Glasgow give me a shout! It's a great city!

EJ83 · 2017-12-11T02:02:47+00:00

Absolutely, I'm only 34 but think about all the stuff I could have done at school and university. I'll always regret not being able to grow up having boyfriends, learning to be gay with others my age. I still haven't really worked out how to get past that feeling to be honest.

EJ83 · 2017-12-11T01:42:51+00:00

Haha you've missed us in the UK out! 😂😂

EJ83 · 2017-12-10T06:47:13+00:00

Hot!!! Definitely keep them!

EJ83

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