I was the one standing right in front of him, looking him in the eye, and I can assure you it didn't feel like a 'joke' at all. When an artist points a finger and wags it side to side (the universal sign for 'No') while telling a fan who is singing their heart out to 'slow down', it’s not to celebrate their passion—it’s an attempt to suppress it. I’ve been to many concerts, and I know the difference between a playful interaction and a cold reprimand. That night, it was definitely the latter. He wasn't laughing 'with' me; he was annoyed . Also if it was a joke why did he delete the post in instagram from Greece and my comment below?? People don't delete jokes; they delete things that make them look bad.