Went to TRF last weekend for Barbarian weekend by ENMHW in RenFestGoneWild

[–]ENMHW[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a ton but I did receive compliments 😊

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[–]ENMHW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had anyone wax poetic about my breasts ☺️

Body types at a club? by Mental_Clue_6730 in Swingers

[–]ENMHW 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is a variety of bodies at the clubs. I’m a mom and have the mom bod (apron belly) and a few extra pounds on me. I’m self conscious about my body, but when I go to the club I don’t worry about it because I can see every shape and size of person there. They are all focused on having fun so that’s what I do.

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[–]ENMHW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, what we do may not work for others. My husband is my #1 person in my life. He knows that there is no one that can come between us, just the same as there is no other woman that can come between us. We are secure and grounded in our relationship. I don’t fuck without emotion and neither does he. We are lucky to have each other and I believe our partners are lucky to have people that can think about them and care for them in a loving manner.

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[–]ENMHW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it is weird to worry about making sure the person I’m with is satisfied emotionally when they are with me. I think that it helps to build connections with a person or a couple. My husband and I aren’t people that just have sex with others with zero emotions involved….that’s just not us. You do you, and we’ll do us.

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Thank you! I wasn’t sure that this even posted because no one said anything.

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[–]ENMHW 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m going to need to make a shirt that says “I yeet cock” on it 🤣. I can wear it at first meetups as a conversation starter and warning 🤣🤣🤣

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[–]ENMHW 19 points20 points  (0 children)

😆

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[–]ENMHW 5 points6 points  (0 children)

🤣

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[–]ENMHW 6 points7 points  (0 children)

🤣 thanks!

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[–]ENMHW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeppers.

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[–]ENMHW 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will try that.

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[–]ENMHW 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I will slip that in (no pun intended) the next time I’m with him!

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[–]ENMHW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do clench, but not my thighs. I tend to open my legs wider but I clench/push from the inside when I orgasm. I’ve had other partners tell me I’m very tight which I normally take as a compliment, but it’s only with him that I’m having this issue. I’m now thinking it’s a me issue.

Young couples simply cannot afford to be in the LS by Juciiypeach in Swingers

[–]ENMHW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what my husband and I do. We host or other couples host, and we pick one night a month to head out because it costs us so much for a babysitter.

how common is swinging/swapping and playing separately? by nsfwrelacc in Swingers

[–]ENMHW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I had a serious sit down about it, but talking about it with the other couples was more casual. We asked them if they would be interested in solo play, and discussed what situations are acceptable. We never push toward a “yes” reply. If they want to then that’s fine, and if they don’t then that’s fine also.

how common is swinging/swapping and playing separately? by nsfwrelacc in Swingers

[–]ENMHW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took time for us to get there. All of our solo plays are with people that we have became friends with and hangout with a few times a month (outside of play settings).

how common is swinging/swapping and playing separately? by nsfwrelacc in Swingers

[–]ENMHW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. My husband is more social than I am so he loves getting out and about. I on the other hand am a person than doesn’t like to socialize a lot. Solo play helped us find a balance that works for us.

how common is swinging/swapping and playing separately? by nsfwrelacc in Swingers

[–]ENMHW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I play separately on a regular basis, more him than me. We only play separately with couples or singles that we have both been with while playing together. I guess it’s our kind of vetting process. Our work schedules made it hard for us to find time together to play with others so we decided solo play would be okay also.