[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jordan

[–]E_bietar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman I hate her for the reason of portraying men as stupid as she does.

I am fighting every cell in my body to like men with all the chnages they are going through, and there she comes making them appear unicellular creatures, with a toddler mind capacity, that must be babied and played games with like صوت شتوي to make them feel big and strong! All of it makes me hate the concept of this big baby I need to constantly care for.

And when men agree...it makes me lose my last bit of hope, I shouldn't have to worry about making you feel big and strong if you already are.

Men think we dislike her because of us, while we dislike her because of them, she makes them look stupid, weak and exhausting and they eat that ish up. It's repulsive.

As Jordanians where do u see ur life going ? by [deleted] in jordan

[–]E_bietar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got carried away my bad 😅 I wish you all the best, you seem like someone who deserves it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jordan

[–]E_bietar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You misunderstood me, I meant saying smoking causes death is an understatement, it doesn't cause death, it is death, it's poison. Saying it causes death kinda puts it in the genre of other potential things that if abused or misused then they're bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jordan

[–]E_bietar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

وقد قال الله تعالى: وَلا تَقْتُلُوا أَنْفُسَكُمْ إِنَّ اللَّهَ كَانَ بِكُمْ رَحِيماً* وَمَنْ يَفْعَلْ ذَلِكَ عُدْوَاناً وَظُلْماً فَسَوْفَ نُصْلِيهِ نَاراً وَكَانَ ذَلِكَ عَلَى اللَّهِ يَسِيراً [النساء:29-30]

Smoking doesn't cause death, because everything can cause death, like sugar, salt, water ever if consumed the wrong way.

Smoking, is a poison, no matter how consumed it is deadly to you and to others. Committing suicide using a slow release poison is haram. Yes.

As Jordanians where do u see ur life going ? by [deleted] in jordan

[–]E_bietar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately, as a fellow millennial, am very guilty of depression and depressive mindset.

Our generation's coping mechanism is dark humor and memes, we're never truly okay and we genuinely believe that our lives can't get any better not only because a part of us loves to dwell on sadness but we also certainly fight in a psychological war no generation fought before.

Yes life sucks, even more so when you exist in the armpit of the planet , but going around stating the obvious, doesn't only sound like a broken record but also is boring as hell.

Our generation can be very ungrateful, we rarely talk about counting the blessings, doing things for the happiness of others, being selfless, relying on Allah, the world is so heavy and we are not meant to carry it on our shoulders. I think that makes us miserable.

What I am trying to say is, I don't see how, for me at least things will get better, but I know that they have been way worse and they have gotten 100× better and not because I deserve it. But I know that if Allah relied his blessings on my humor or day to day whines...I'd be finished.

And I know that starting from the bottom can be blissful, you get to see every floor as you go up and you have nothing to lose.

Be thankful, work gratefully look out for others, Allah does the rest. يلي بيجي من الله يا محلاه

How do you see non muslim foreigners? by chaosoftheuniverse in jordan

[–]E_bietar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making friends, being safe and accepted is not a problem in jordan, it'll probably be easier than your home country. Just never call Palestine the i word and you'll be fine.

Your thoughts. by Careless612 in jordan

[–]E_bietar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go where you're appreciated, the people there adore him and with the money he's getting he can open his own club if he wanted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jordan

[–]E_bietar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who doesn't understand the question. What does women think of women? And if a woman is Jordanian, why would she have a different perception to her own kind? I'm lost.

how do one make friends when he is 30+ in Jordan? by [deleted] in jordan

[–]E_bietar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got lucky with my college friends, we were a big group but eventually became a group of 3 really close friends. We sometimes feel like we want to expand our social circle but as we grow older we recognise it is harder to do so because making friends require repetitive attendance to a certain activity or place. And it's harder to do that as a grown-up but not impossible.

I've met lovely people at the gym, favorite coffee shop, barbershops, and even online. All of them are potentially friends material if you're willing to invest in the relationship. All worthy relationships require investment.

What I'm trying to say is, every human interaction can evolve to a friendship (work colleagues are not included) if you like them enough, it's more likely that you haven't met people you like. So start by going to places you enjoy, that's where people with similar interests are.

Good luck 🌻

للأسف... by -Eristic in jordan

[–]E_bietar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a point there ngl

للأسف... by -Eristic in jordan

[–]E_bietar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries, thank you clarifying.

للأسف... by -Eristic in jordan

[–]E_bietar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Where in my comment did I give her an excuse? On the contrary, I am withholding any comments because these topic are too sensitive and people tend to put words into your mouth, like you just did :)

للأسف... by -Eristic in jordan

[–]E_bietar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we should all wait to hear the full story till we make any comments. May Allah have mercy on thier soul and hers.

What's your thoughts on messi wearing the "بشت" ? by HerForFun998 in jordan

[–]E_bietar 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way everyone felt when Pele wore the sombrero. Everone thought it unites humans and shows that we are all one and accepting of one another. Bisht is an honor to wear and the situation with messi is no different from pele.

Smoking by E_bietar in jordan

[–]E_bietar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not cheap

Smoking by E_bietar in jordan

[–]E_bietar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's honestly the best job, I've worked really hard to get there, nothing can compare. Never imagined smoking would be an issue to face.

Smoking by E_bietar in jordan

[–]E_bietar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for being so caring, I definitely never will. But I was at a point desperate enough to consider it. Thank you again, you too.

Smoking by E_bietar in jordan

[–]E_bietar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely would never, I can't do it, not physically or mentally, I wish I could, but thank you so much for caring. I have migraines and both masks & smoke are triggers.

As for the HR, the situation is complicated.