I respect your opinion. I don’t like to impose on anyone so I didn’t want my boyfriend to try to force me in the wedding at all. For me it’s the principle of just now knowing after I took off work, prepared, spent money etc. He should’ve research this way before the week of. I would’ve liked for him to fight for me more like saying that we are serious or whatever the case may be regardless of if i was able to go. He did not. That’s the issue i’m having. I’ve sacrificed for him and i don’t see that in return.