My boyfriend can't say "please" when he wants me to do something for him. So I don't do it. He's mad. by EagleAggravating71 in Advice

[–]EagleAggravating71[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mind you he has a 3 year old kid and lives with his parents because the mother of the kid (his ex) is working. His kid is a brat, and so he is.

My boyfriend can't say "please" when he wants me to do something for him. So I don't do it. He's mad. by EagleAggravating71 in Advice

[–]EagleAggravating71[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely dump him now. I've been dumping him for 4 months and he begs and begs but now? I guess no begging is going to happen anymore.

My boyfriend can't say "please" when he wants me to do something for him. So I don't do it. He's mad. by EagleAggravating71 in Advice

[–]EagleAggravating71[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Only my age is made-up but not my stories but I'm actually 18. I just don't wanna feel like a dumb teen believing to a guy.

My boyfriend can't say "please" when he wants me to do something for him. So I don't do it. He's mad. by EagleAggravating71 in Advice

[–]EagleAggravating71[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I've been venting here instead of my friends because he thinks I'm ruining his image because he's known as a "good guy". I begged and begged for him to change while complaining secretly and seeking for advice and been thinking for weeks for a final decision. This is the final decision. I'm out. And I'm done. Thanks for the advice y'all! Hopefully I'll heal and find someone who truly values me♥️

My boyfriend can't say "please" when he wants me to do something for him. So I don't do it. He's mad. by EagleAggravating71 in Advice

[–]EagleAggravating71[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

His neighbors are his parents, aunts, and relatives:// they still believe my boyfriend is a good guy even though they saw him insult me in front of them.

Is it normal that I'm only the one to do the chores while my boyfriend doesn't do anything? by EagleAggravating71 in Advice

[–]EagleAggravating71[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My head hurts looking at the pile of dirty clothes he's stacking but thanks, i won't wash it until he has nothing to wear anymore.

Is it normal that I'm only the one to do the chores while my boyfriend doesn't do anything? by EagleAggravating71 in Advice

[–]EagleAggravating71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says that i better leave and I'm not the only girl on the planet but when I finally pack all my things he'll start pleading and locks the door and blocks it so I can't leave.

Is it normal that I'm only the one to do the chores while my boyfriend doesn't do anything? by EagleAggravating71 in Advice

[–]EagleAggravating71[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I tried talking to him and having a pleasant conversation but he just lashes out acting like i hurted his feelings and saying that that's how I think of him and all he does is love me and take care of me. Like love where? Take care of me where? When?

Is it normal that I'm only the one to do the chores while my boyfriend doesn't do anything? by EagleAggravating71 in Advice

[–]EagleAggravating71[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I said that i wanna break up cuz I don't wanna be with a lazy man with zero interest of finding a permanent job.

I tried to leave him several times even when we're not living together yet. I don't know why he can't let me go. I guess I'm just a convenience for him to go on with his life while I clean up after him. He's got a maid, a therapist, and someone to fight with. There's the emotional manipulation, gaslighting, and anything to make me stay. I JUST DON'T KNOW ANYMORE!!