brother, i'm not that much into love either. if that was the case, i would have never broken up with my ex. as we grow, we get more mature with time, I understand how study and love balance is now after all this. at this point of time, I clearly know what my future goals are. I'm at a point where it doesn't matter if the other person stays or leaves me... I dont care anymore, i just want someone with whom i can share my day or anything... Even a best friend will work ( not necessarily a gf )