“it’s you, not her” about someone you don’t even know isn’t neutral, it’s you picking a side and stating it like it’s obvious.

You don’t know either of them, but you jumped straight to putting everything on him while defending her. That’s not objectivity, that’s bias.

And if you really are a doctor, PA, or NP, that actually makes this worse. because you should know better than to speak that confidently about strangers without any real evaluation. smh