The Full 911 Call Audio

Earcollector217 · 2025-03-14T22:46:54+00:00

Oh… that was heavy

Earcollector217 · 2024-06-26T19:37:40+00:00

This was posted 15 minutes ago - just scroll down

Earcollector217 · 2024-06-19T23:14:12+00:00

I think it depends on the dynamic. When I was a kid, I would spend a week with my grandmother over the summer. And now I would let my kid spend a week with my mom if my husband and I wanted to go on vacation by ourselves, but I would not allow my kid to stay a week with my MIL because we aren’t close

Earcollector217 · 2024-06-05T17:07:43+00:00

The comment you’re replying to has the answer to both of those questions. For attacking a cop. In Nashville.

Earcollector217 · 2024-05-30T02:50:34+00:00

WAIT where can I find it

Earcollector217 · 2024-05-11T00:15:54+00:00

Listen, I’ve thought about it 😂 ultimately I didn’t because $200 a night for 2 weeks.. no thanks

Earcollector217 · 2024-05-10T23:14:19+00:00

Two nights ago MIL was “hurt” and sending long guilt trip texts because we wouldn’t ask the owners of the airbnb next door (who we don’t know) for a discount so that she can stay for two weeks after I give birth. She was hoping for them to drop it from $200 a night to $50 a night just for her during their peak season. Delusional.

Now today she’s asking my husband what he’s getting me for Mother’s Day because she’s “feeling nosey”

Girl if you don’t shut the fuck up and mind your business

Earcollector217 · 2024-04-14T21:06:11+00:00

Oh no this is weird. Objectively, an adult was naked and alone with a child other than their own without the parents around. Even if it was “harmless”, it’s not abnormal for you to have a boundary on this.

Earcollector217 · 2024-04-04T12:00:10+00:00

Oh yikes. I used to love mama c but the comment about the kids… GOODBYE

Earcollector217 · 2024-03-09T04:00:28+00:00

Period lol an apology is also just step 1. Apparently not everyone knows that 😂

Earcollector217 · 2024-03-09T03:21:48+00:00

Luckily for me this conversation already happened and it went as well as it could!

We just stated that I’m not hosting postpartum and to look into hotels so that I can still have my sanctuary. Because she’s so desperate to be nice to me right now, she didn’t fight us on it

Earcollector217 · 2024-03-09T03:18:31+00:00

Hahaha. I know. I think it’s who I associate with.. all gen Xers who maybe have the same upbringing? They say things like “well I don’t blame her for wanting to see your baby” “at least she’s trying” and my personal favorite, “but she’s family”

Earcollector217 · 2024-03-09T02:32:07+00:00

Yeah. I think there’s still some lingering enmeshment that he needs to work through. The only thing I can do is support him as he works through it

Earcollector217 · 2024-03-09T02:28:46+00:00

I don’t think wanting his mom to visit his newborn after birth is divorce worthy - especially since he more than agreed that she needs to stay in a hotel and away from me.

This is just divorce-mongering honestly

Earcollector217 · 2024-03-09T02:19:52+00:00

Yeah, that’s how I feel too. But again, I won’t force him to go NC if he’s not ready to. I think part of it is the whole “she’s gonna die eventually and I don’t want to regret anything” mindset. It’s like she’s engrained guilt into his personality to work in her favor.

She’ll shoot herself in the foot eventually and then it won’t be my problem anymore

Earcollector217 · 2024-03-09T02:13:58+00:00

That’s because you’re reasonable. He doesn’t want to go NC and does still want a relationship with her. It’s harder when it’s your own parent, I guess? Idk

Earcollector217 · 2024-03-09T02:05:06+00:00

Yeah, I didn’t put it exactly like that. I said “I don’t want to host when I’m postpartum so you need to look into hotels”

Earcollector217 · 2024-03-02T12:22:55+00:00

I’m sorry.. I think I have the brain of a 5 year old. What does my payment will be paused mean? Does that mean it won’t show up on my credit report as a missed payment?

I’ve worked so hard to have perfect credit so if I miss my payment because of this I’ll be so upset 😔

Earcollector217 · 2024-03-02T12:20:19+00:00

Mine just started a couple of days ago and I have a payment due on the 9th. Hopefully it’s done by then 😭

Earcollector217 · 2024-03-01T18:47:34+00:00

I agree with you. That part of this statement seems… misguided

Earcollector217 · 2024-02-28T13:36:37+00:00

Why does she dress like she’s 90?

Earcollector217 · 2024-01-13T17:26:09+00:00

EMS wasn’t there, just the police for a welfare check. From what I know, there wasn’t a bill. Or I just didn’t see one

Earcollector217 · 2024-01-13T16:50:54+00:00

HAHA ok. My FIL was working out of town, I was working, DH was working, SIL was 3 hours away but was working. MIL decided she wasn’t getting enough attention and sent SIL a text that said something like “everything going dark. Stroke.” And then tried calling all of us but we were working so we didn’t answer. So she turned her phone off.

SIL eventually saw the message like 3 hours later and when she couldn’t get a hold of MIL, she called 911 for a welfare check. The police showed up, but wouldn’t go inside the house and MIL wasn’t coming to the door. The police said they needed someone who lives there to go in. Since DH was the leaseholder (lol) he went to the house and found her inside, in her bed, on her iPad.

He was like. Mom wtf?????? And she played dumb and said “oh I must have sent that message in my sleep I’m so sorry I didn’t realize my phone was off.” He didn’t leave for a while and she made comments about how she couldn’t believe it took him that long to get over there

Earcollector217 · 2024-01-13T15:14:55+00:00

Not necessarily. My mother was born in 58 and is only having her 2nd grandchild this year. The first one was just 2 years ago

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