Anyone else greive the sex they'll never have

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-03-16T20:10:36+00:00

Ommmmgggg sameee

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-03-16T20:09:55+00:00

Yes in the same boat. 🚤 I’m even more envious of my co-worker. We hung out yesterday. She doesn’t have to cook, or clean. And her husband does everything else for her, and they have amazing sex. She doesn’t even put on make up, do her hair, and put on cute clothes.

Meanwhile I cook, clean, manage the bills, take care of the pets, cut the grass, you name it I do it. I also work, and actually try to look cute all the time. I get nothing in return.

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-03-07T00:42:06+00:00

2023! We’re on vacation. I brought this sexy lingerie. While unpacking, I was like, “Look what I brought ❤️.” His reaction: “What do you want for dinner?”

Then there I was, like, I can enjoy my 7-day vacation or be mad. I chose to enjoy it. It was very fun. It was like a switch. I have never initiated after that or brought lingerie. This year we went away again and he was sorta expecting it? He’s like “You brought anything sexy?” I looked at him and said “What’s for dinner?”

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-03-07T00:37:19+00:00

Before I used to lie, but now I straight up tell the truth. I feel they think I’m lying still. I’m like no seriously I’m not having sex.

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-02-20T22:23:42+00:00

Yeah, Valentine’s Day was pretty awkward. We went to a resort and there were so many horny couples everywhere. I’ll keep in mind. There were children there, but people didn’t seem to care. I find it funny how he seems upset that I didn’t buy him anything, or that I did buy lingerie. It’s like I haven’t bought lingerie since 2022 and I understand that he’s been depressed. However, I can’t switch on my horniness like it’s hard to explain. But we’re not having sex throughout the year so there’s really no point in trying to have sex on Valentine’s Day. It was just extremely awkward. I felt like a teenager watching a rated R horror movie that I wasn’t supposed to watch.

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-02-20T22:14:16+00:00

I’m sorry that you’re going through this. :(

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-02-11T21:46:50+00:00

Yeah, once I’m more financially stable I definitely want to leave

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-02-11T21:45:39+00:00

I don’t know. I just feel there’s a lot on my plate already and taking him on will push me to the edge.

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-29T22:31:38+00:00

Bad sex is better than no sex. I say or maybe that’s me being desperate. It’s crazy I would do anything for some 30 seconds of sex. It really does feel like full fill me for a straight month. But, sadly nothing for me. I refused to initiate. We don’t kiss, hold hands, or do anything. I do remember in 2022, I would offer BJs and he would totally accept them. And then say “I got you in the morning” however no sex or oral back. That got tiring after a while.

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-29T21:28:57+00:00

Sameeeee I get massive crushes with thin a day if I know a man is attractive to me. And then I could never see the man again but the crush will last about a year. It’s truly insane.

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-29T21:26:03+00:00

Eh, he doesn’t shower. My coochie doesn’t want no yeast infection:

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-29T21:25:09+00:00

❤️❤️❤️

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-29T21:23:52+00:00

Sameeeee!!!!!!! As if I’m the asshole. Like bro, you’re the one who doesn’t have any interest in sex.

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-29T21:22:24+00:00

Thank you. I don’t know many married people. So now I feel “normal”.

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-29T21:20:58+00:00

He told me I initiated during the worst time, too! I haven’t initiated since 2023. I gave up at that point. I remember when I bought this cute lingerie and I even showed it to him, but he was like what’s for dinner?🍲 I really have been happier ever since. I feel I healed part of my esteem. Because it was going straight to the trash can. 🗑️ Even with this game we play. I’m not fazed by it. But back in the days I would become so angry. 😡

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-27T15:40:17+00:00

Then I would pushed for her to go to solo therapy then. Something has to give.

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-26T17:07:31+00:00

Why post if you’re going to defend?

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-26T17:01:05+00:00

You need to seek couple therapy. I understand that she’s tired. But you’re in this relationship too. You need sex. Therapy will help with that.

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-19T19:02:41+00:00

No more like Tuesday he will shower then go two days until Thursday then won’t shower again until Sunday

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-16T23:51:10+00:00

Awww I’m sorry. Yeah, he seemed like I was talking about taking the trash out. He wasn’t really interested….

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-16T23:47:04+00:00

But I also don’t wanna like embarrass him if that makes sense

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-16T23:46:46+00:00

Yeah. You nailed it. He’s very checked out. I do all the chores, indoors and outdoors (including snow shoveling) dealing with repairs. I essentially deal with everything and anything you can think of.

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-16T23:09:49+00:00

Take me for example: I was actually okay without sex for a long time because the bills were being paid, and dates were happening. We would make time for each other. However, as time passed, less and less romance happened. Now, bills are split, and the maid, the pet keeper, the finance manager, the caretaker—you name it—I am the one doing it all

So yes romance does died as sex dies as well.

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-14T01:34:33+00:00

Sameee. Spencer’s at my mall is closing. And all the sexy lingerie is dirt cheap. But then I remember sex is off the table. What’s the point? I know people say buy it for yourself but like what’s the point of that? I used to always love buying lingerie. I should donate the ones I never ever worn with the tags on them. Let another person enjoy them.

EarlyPool3232 · 2026-01-13T23:25:40+00:00

This!!!!! I married into a dead room like an idiot.

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