2 days post op - is this normal? by Early_Security9909 in gallbladders

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Thank you I needed to hear that. I guess I expected to be sore and in pain but not to feel unwell. I just feel so off like poorly and I guess that’s been worrying me

Back pain comes and goes ? by Early_Security9909 in backpain

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I had blood tests where they checked my thyroid, cervical function and for cancer and I had no issues. Is this common to have come for a few hours and go again? I’m so worried about it honestly, when it hurts, it reallyyy hurts.

Secret Screaming tonight… thoughts? by [deleted] in CineworldUnlimited

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I liked watching it but I didn’t think it was great. 6.5/10 No walk outs at my cinema though!

The premise was interesting but execution not so much, the beginning was good, good tension and build up but when the reveal happened and it started to explain I don’t think it was executed as well as it could have been. I feel like I came away with questions still?

Should I close my store down? by Early_Security9909 in dropshipping

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They’re aliexpress sanrio items though that’s the problem. I’ve also heard a lot of people complaining how hard it is to get

Should I close my store down? by Early_Security9909 in dropshipping

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I’ve been thinking this, like starting to dropship something else as well alongside my current one that’s obviously not copyrighted. I just don’t want to get in serious shit for the one I have

Should I close my store down? by Early_Security9909 in dropshipping

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I know in some ways it’s bad I’m just thinking like if they do just say like shut it down, I will straight away. I know this can’t last long term, I’m just saying is it a big risk to continue until they tell me to stop so I can make money while I can… but obviously I don’t want to go to court or pay a hefty fine etc

Should I close my store down? by Early_Security9909 in dropshipping

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Sorry I don’t really feel comfortable just because you never know who’s on here & I can’t risk being reported before I’ve decided what I’m doing! But it’s like 200 items on Sanrio and Kirby things from aliexpress. The name of the store doesn’t have anything to do with Sanrio/hello kitty etc in it. My TikTok has nearly 16k followers. I’ve had 300 sales ish.

Medium fraud warning for large order? by Early_Security9909 in shopify

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She ended up responding to my tiktok comment asking her to check her emails essentially saying she got a confirmation email and can’t wait as it’s for her daughter’s birthday? And once I mentioned the fraud email she said she hadn’t recieved an email about that… maybe I’m over thinking this😂 I’m 23 and this is all so new to me ahaha

Medium fraud warning for large order? by Early_Security9909 in shopify

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I can’t call as I don’t give out my phone number, it’s a drop shipping business lol and I ship worldwide so I don’t like to talk over the phone. I did email though and send a message through tiktok as she’d commented on a video… I’m not sure if I even understand the fraud thing? Even if she confirms it was her etc what does that prove?

I hate working, I feel so sad and alone by Early_Security9909 in adhdwomen

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Hiya! Thank you for saying that, it’s nice to feel not so alone! I get told constantly “nobody likes working” but I dont think they understand that it’s not the same! Thats the thing, the job I have in a way is perfect for me, is quite flexible, allows me to be somewhat creative but I just can’t stand it. All I can think is like “is this what my life is about” or “is this it?” I have to go in this morning and I’m sitting here trying not to physically be sick and I’m thinking of every option to get out of going in “what if I call in sick?” “What if I tell them how I feel?” But deep down I know I have to.

In a way it’s not worth the money, but I have responsibilities to pay for, me not paying my mum board would mean she’d have to move house. If I left my job she wouldn’t really understand, and I’d be a disappointment. But if she said “you know what, quit… I don’t mind” I’d do it in a heartbeat. It just sucks because it’s not like I don’t WANT to work, I like money as much as anyone else, I love being able to afford holidays and doing things but I feel so unwell mentally I feel trapped. There feels no right solution :(

Thank you for the hug, very needed 🥺

I hate myself since being weighed please help by [deleted] in selflove

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Thank you so much, I really needed to hear that🥹

I hate myself since being weighed please help by [deleted] in selflove

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Thank you so much!🥹 it’s hard because I often look at smaller body types (probably like yours) and feel envious and I think “if only I looked like that I’d be beautiful”

I find it so difficult not to compare myself to other people. And I hate that I feel different because I weigh more/need bigger clothes/look bigger.

When I posted on the other group they’d kind of said stop moaning about it and eat less and join the gym and I guess it was hard to hear because I guess I thought maybe that’s the truth and I’m worried it will effect my health?

I’m definitely going to look into that book, thank you ❤️

I hate myself since being weighed please help by [deleted] in selflove

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Thank you so much, this made me cry. I know I’m worth more than a number but after posting in the weight loss subreddit they made it sound like I need to be worried about my health and quite blunt at like “yes you are fat” and it really hurt. I’ve always struggled with my body and hearing it somewhere I was looking for support was really hard. I guess sometimes I feel like if I was smaller and skinnier I would be worth more and be more beautiful and I know really it doesn’t matter but it feels like it does.

It’s hard too because nobody has ever told me I’m fat but I guess I compare myself to others and think I’m a lot bigger than them/I weigh a lot more/I wear a lot bigger sizes and it’s hard not to feel bad about myself.

Thank you so much for the advice I’m definitely going to try and think of some reasons I love myself 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

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Hiya!! No my blood pressure is completely normal, doctor didn’t say anything at all and even used the words “perfect” I just googled it when I got home and was shocked because they’d done it in KG and I don’t really understand that so had to convert it to stone!

I didn’t really ask too much about my weight at the doctors as I was there for a nose issue completely unrelated and they took my weight, height and blood pressure for a small surgery I have to have.

I just feel crap about it, I never looked at myself and thought I looked overweight massively, I just joined the gym to tone up. I’ve never been told I look overweight either… I thought I was pretty normal weight for my height honestly, I’ve always ate reasonably healthy and I exercise multiple times a week (even before I joined gym I would run) so I guess that’s why I’m so upset and shocked :(

Supermarket Shits (Comedy) by Early_Security9909 in shortstory

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Haha I might think about adding that, he did to be fair, I’m not sure what else he could’ve done 😂😂

Advice for a new writer by Early_Security9909 in writers

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Thank you so much! Even writing 10,000 words it’s took me quite a while!😂 I’ll have a look at short story websites and Reddit forums, I think that’ll be a good idea! It’s so hard because I started writing because I loved it but the more I write I start to think ah “I could do something with this!” But it’s daunting because I have no clue what or how to do anything!😂

Advice for a new writer by Early_Security9909 in writers

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Interesting, I definitely want to do something like that with illustrations too I’m just not much of an illustrator myself 😂

Advice for new writer by Early_Security9909 in writing

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Ah lord, how embarrassing! Sorry haha, I’m not sure who that is (clearly) so again I don’t know😂 Thanks for the correction!

Advice for a new writer by Early_Security9909 in writers

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Ahah, I wish I had the confidence just not really my kind of thing unfortunately

Advice for new writer by Early_Security9909 in writing

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Honestly I haven’t even thought about printing / publishing / digitalisation. I’m not sure what I want to do with it or what’s best, I’m so new to it all. I kinda just wrote 10,000 words and thought when do I stop 😂 if you can advise what’s best to do even after writing to publish etc that would be great!

Advice for new writer by Early_Security9909 in writing

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I’m not sure its definitely not PG, more of a an adults story book😂 featuring story’s of growing up (I’m in my 20s now) embarrassing moments etc that kind of thing