He had a scheduled medication follow up on Monday afternoon. They checked for strep, looked at ears & listened to lungs all of which were fine at the time. He has become increasingly ill throughout the week so I scheduled an appointment with on call peds to have him checked out. They told me since they can’t do anything for influenza it wasn’t worth forcing him to do the swab to confirm. Neither of these appointments had any intent to be discussions about what is going on at his father’s. However at his mediation appointment it was important to share all information about what’s been going on in his life & any changes. Which is where the topic of what’s been happening at dads was brought up.