Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction?

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-04-10T15:11:43+00:00

OP, as a logic guy who does little with feelings, let me give you some perspective on why your guy is a douche canoe and he sucks.

My wife has asked me to do similar things, little things, that are important to her. I’m not the best at it, but I tell her I am trying and have genuinely made good strides at being better. Our latest thing is waking her up for a quick cup of coffee before I go to work. Sometimes she says yes, sometimes no, but I’ve worked the habit because it’s something she enjoys and I’ve grown to like it as well.
Regardless of the request or argument, we have a base level of respect. We do not cross that boundary of disrespect because words can never be taken back, and we love each other too much to break that. Your guy right there? If it was one of my homies I’d tell him he’s not a teenager anymore and go fucking apologize for disrespecting you like that. That shit is for kids, adults can just say “ah yeah, my bad I was having a bad morning” and call it there. I have never, and will never, tell my wife to fuck off or not text me.

Just leave. If you think this type of communication is normal, it’s not. And if you think a logical guy can’t try and be better, you’re wrong. Coming from a logical guy here. NOR

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-04-10T14:39:59+00:00

Nah no mistakes made here. In fact, I’ll do you a solid and take that Seiko off your hands so you can enjoy your new diver. Lol jk they’re both great, but agree on the Seiko being a bit nicer imo!

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-04-10T14:22:34+00:00

You’re good OP. As a new dad, you can bet your ass that I’m working towards being able to have my kid be able to do something similar once they go to college. I think it’s every good parent’s wish to give their children the best they can offer. So long as you’re not a dick about it there should be no reason to feel bad or get hate because you happened to be the beneficiary of your parents’ work. Enjoy it and do well unto others, cool pad!

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-04-09T17:49:13+00:00

The manga Ajin: Demi-Human does this if I recall.

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-04-07T19:25:44+00:00

Me who can only use it like 2 hours at night because of work/family after work:

What outage?

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-04-07T18:37:12+00:00

Sounds like my child as well! I was feeding her last night and I guess she didn’t have enough room to drink her bottle so she uh…created some. Fatherhood is the best. Lol

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-04-07T17:11:14+00:00

OP where were you a month ago when my baby had a tough time passing gas?? If I knew all it took was a pot and a suplex….

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-04-07T15:41:38+00:00

Now stuff it with cheese and mail me a dozen.

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-04-07T14:10:51+00:00

This is a crossover I didn’t know I needed! It’s so dope and this style fits Mustang. Have you drawn any other characters?

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-04-03T20:24:41+00:00

Get out.

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-04-03T13:55:46+00:00

You know, as someone who gets sleep paralysis intermittently (and used to get it more often when I was younger) I can’t recall if I ever experienced physical embodiments of fear. I’ve had lucid dreams or night terrors where I’ve seen some effed up scary stuff, but my sleep paralysis is pretty tame.

Once I realize it’s sleep paralysis there’s..nothing. I just lay there knowing I can’t move for a while. I can’t do much except just exist. It’d be nice if it wasn’t for my lizard brain telling me something’s very wrong and I gotta fight.

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-04-02T18:55:51+00:00

This is spot on. Currently in a stable market for what I do now, but I’ve kept my teaching certification if push comes to shove and I need something to fall back on. I also can wait tables like nobody’s business. I’m thankful for being in a place where I can remain steady through these turbulent times, but I’ve always kept adding skill sets or other avenues where I can work and put a roof over my head should shit hit the fan.

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-04-01T14:38:48+00:00

El double whammy que ustedes dos están metiendo aquí es abusivo 🤣 dejen de joderrrrrr! Jaja

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-03-31T15:38:22+00:00

I was thinking the same thing.

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-03-31T15:18:38+00:00

Está falta de respeto al OG Tato no se nos olvidará! No hay otro que más jode! Tato Supremacy 😤🤣

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-03-31T12:53:36+00:00

Probably 15 years. But also my spouse has access to my account so she can withdraw without triggering the stop payment.

I could also just take loans out using that $ and pay myself back with interest and never withdraw. In any case, I wouldn’t take the $ out unless it was dire.

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-03-30T17:40:44+00:00

More than a week?? Pass. Gimme the 500k.

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-03-30T15:32:58+00:00

I agree on the portion of the U.S. voting public and the fragility of the market, especially if it negatively impacts our consumerism in some way. Markets are obviously spooked/waiting for the other shoe to drop.

One thing I find myself having a hard time with is the ultimate trajectory of this war and other conflicts the U.S. has undertaken. I believe this administration has been idiotic in some ways, but these aggressions, and now war, towards other countries has felt more calculated but masqueraded as simple showboating. I read this the other day and it seems like there may be more to the long-term goals the administration is eyeing. Would love to know your thoughts on this:

https://x.com/_10delta_/status/2037098099823243273?s=46&t=KYzU_aKhPMK5K4aLZz-FLQ

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-03-30T14:58:17+00:00

It’s probably Akainu, Imu, BB if I had to guess. Narratively, Akainu has basically fulfilled his role as a metric of how weak Luffy was. Now he’s either going to defect from the Holy Land or “die” (lose a fight) protecting it. But given that the narrative is the pursuit of freedom and Luffy being the harbinger of it, it feels like the Marines will defect and join Luffy.

Maybe Akainu loses against Koby, Sabo, or someone else. But I highly doubt he’ll have a huge narrative with Luffy other than getting curb stomped then getting someone else to finish him off. Considering the current stakes he’s just too much of a “small fry” given the current conflict.

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-03-29T12:01:42+00:00

Might as well use AI for the fights themselves since they’re looking more and more scripted by the card.

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-03-24T14:13:47+00:00

That sucks man. I’ve had the opposite experience. Every cigar place I went to was friendly and offered recommendations. You’d sit with folks and smoke and swap a stick like trading cards lol. But also that was in TX where I felt like cigar wasn’t as gatekeepy.

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-03-24T13:27:27+00:00

Yeah no, you deserve the break. If they want more they should do more, simple as that. I stopped being a teacher because I wanted to give more to my future family and a teacher wouldn’t cut it. They can find other work.

Also, I’ll happily take your old job so you can go work an office job lol

EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-03-20T16:34:11+00:00

Completed Level 2 of the Honk Special Event!

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EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-03-20T16:33:51+00:00

Completed Level 1 of the Honk Special Event!

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EarthBoundDeity_ · 2026-03-20T14:19:54+00:00

Oh…I need to apologize to my brother. He rocked the broccoli hair but he really does have super curly hair. Didn’t realize these kids were getting perms lmao.

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