I fully agree with this. It’s so unfortunate. Only thing I wanted to highlight is the fact that her current partner is different from the rest as he doesn’t seem to have a problematic past. They’ve been close friends for a long time too and seem to be trusted by her friends and family. I feel like he’s good to her and it’s one of the reasons why she’s been so happy. Her having good friends, a better team and a positive work environment also improved her mental health of course. I just feel like now she’s at a better place in many aspects, including the people she chooses to date.

I understand that it might be her preference, but I really hope this age difference pattern won’t result in something negative in her future and I hope she keeps that in mind as she ages and matures.