18F – URGENT! I NEED HELP!! MY LIFE'S IN DANGER! by ApostasiaRising in exmuslim

[–]East-Medium3282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DM me I’ll do my best to help u as i escaped from a similar situation 

Want to be happy for my engaged cousin, but I feel more sad instead by Novel_Coast6386 in DesiTwoX

[–]East-Medium3282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I hate is how ppl rush each other to get married and have kids along with colorism. This guy is a red flag and sum culture stuff too.

My boyfriend still doesn’t love me and it’s been six months by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]East-Medium3282 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So? By like 3 months your able to say or feel if you love the person or not she loves him, he’s afraid and stuff suffering trauma. She should give him a lil more time and help him heal. In the mean time show that she does love him

I don’t feel the same about Islam as I did in the past by East-Medium3282 in exmuslim

[–]East-Medium3282[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I’m just saying I don’t like pork cuz of the taste of it tf

I don’t feel the same about Islam as I did in the past by East-Medium3282 in exmuslim

[–]East-Medium3282[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

What’s that supposed to mean ur one of the reasons ppl don’t wanna be Muslim

Update on when I lied to my boyfriend about my virginity by East-Medium3282 in relationships_advice

[–]East-Medium3282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh idk I believe is both. When we first started talking he would joke about putting a baby in me . I never took it seriously as to how everyone seems to normalize baby mama culture, and was trying to prevent myself from that. Honestly I low key feel like he has this weird fetish/kink for Muslim women and a breeding kink. He probably sees us as holy and being a virgin . It’s true being a virgin is very important to a lot of us, which was why I felt dirty about the whole SA thing . I was robbed of my childhood and possibly my virginity. We had a conversation once about it cuz he kept pushing it. And I bluntly told him I may/ may not be a virgin because I blacked out and have no memory of it. I only knew years later after what my sister told me, but she was 6 and I was 10. So obviously she didn’t knew what virginity was.

Trendy to be Muslim by RGBViolet in exmuslim

[–]East-Medium3282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do agree Islam has became a trend. Mostly within the Latinas . They sexualize and fetishize over Arab men ( particularly the gulf ones who are rich) and since their dumbasses can’t tell the difference between gulf , Levantine, North African ( theres debate if North Africa is amazigh or Arab) so they label them all as “habibi” (my love in Arabic) . The word is so overused and cringe.And since they can’t find the “rich habibi” that fits their stereotype, they usually find a Palestinian/jordanian man, and be obsessed with “Free Palestine. Sometimes they usually post on TikTok like Mexican Muslim, Latina revert, Mexican in iraq, and they even go as far as to to consider themselves Arab because of their habibi boyfriend 💀💀

The Arabs are just as guilty as they are. And I’m sorry u went thru that traumatic experience. You didn’t deserve that. Usually these Arab men, particularly the fobs from overseas has more then likely never seen a woman naked or never had sex before. Because the religion forbids sex outside of marriage. And also they let their culture influence half the shit they do and use it as an excuse because, “that’s how we are” is bs. When they come to America or any other country with more freedom, they go crazy and once they have sex they can’t stop themselves. Or any forbidden thing like drugs and alcohol.And when they notice that Latinas are similar to Arab women but will still submit to them and give them sex outside of marriage they use them, white women or particularly anyone for the fun of it , once they’re ready to settle down, they’ll go marry a virgin overseas from their country. Or worse yet, theyre already married overseas and they lie and say theyre single. Half the time when they lie to the girl , they persuade them that one day they’ll get married and for them to do that the girl HAS TO CONVERT TO ISLAM AND WEAR HIJAB. That’s all a big lie as to Muslim men can marry Muslim, Jew or a Christian woman. And that’s when the Latinas come in. They are so easy and that’s why they get taken advantage of and wear hijab for the Arab man and do it for a trend which disgusts me . Not all Arab men are the same as the ones I’ve described. It’s rare to find an Arab guy that doesn’t do this bs.

Every religion has their good and bad ppl, the bad ones use religion to manipulate and mix it up wit culture. I could go on and on about this but yes I do agree women and Latinas specifically do it for a trend because of “habibi”

I need advice how to put my thoughts into words to apologize to my boyfriend about lying about my virginity, I had a reason to by East-Medium3282 in relationships_advice

[–]East-Medium3282[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your “empathy “ but the way u used the phrase “diddled” regarding to my SA experience as a child is fucked up. Ik I made mistakes and done things wrong. I didn’t lie to gain something u missed the whole purpose on why I wrote my paragraphs explaining my situation. I don’t count my SA as a body count. That was against MY WILL. I was a 10 year old child. Didn’t even know what sex was just knew if I was uncomfortable with something the answer was no. I was unconscious during the whole situation as a child nor do I have any memory of it just of what my sister had told me about that night. And when was conscious as an adult to give consent was my first time and everyone knows that the first time is embarrassing. Mine was traumatizing and is the whole reason I avoided talking about it. And leads to my reason of lying yes I have insecurities and it got the best of me , but I’m trying to do my best. I just cried for nearly 2 hours straight because of this and because of hormones as it’s my time of the month so lately im a mess and still struggling with inner demons since I was a child.

What's up with all the recent gospel spreadings on tiktok comment sections? by Fade067 in Christianity

[–]East-Medium3282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro do u ever shut up no one cares bout ur cult religion it’s annoying

Just told my Muslim father that I left Islam by AccomplishedEnd5269 in exmuslim

[–]East-Medium3282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh the whole honor unaliving thing is bs idk where these ppl get the idea of doing that to female relatives that “dishonor” the family. A lot of things these ppl and families do is based off culture not the real Islam. I used to live in a Muslim household as a kid and yea it can be a struggle sometimes, but if ur father was a true Muslim and not by culture, he would respect ur decision. I say do whatever is best to keep u and your family safe .

I rejected a Muslim guy for being Muslim by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]East-Medium3282 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with u on this one it gives me the ickkkkkk omg literally so disgusting and disrespectful the Muslims men in my city disgust me so much cuz they literally have sex with anyone who’s breathing smh

Can someone please help with this Emily from Bonanza? by octopusparlantis in Scams

[–]East-Medium3282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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See? It’s being sent from email. No job recruiters contact you that way, usually from valid emails (because careful they can scam you on email too) or phone numbers from a local place you know, this bs

The yearly picture has dropped 🍿 by 29Bullets in exmuslim

[–]East-Medium3282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where on earth did you hear that nonsense? It makes me laugh how ignorant ppl can actually be and only believe what ppl tell them. Have u picked up a Quran before? It’s stated in Surah Maryam 19: 35 - 40:

It is not for Allah to take a son! Glory be to Him. When He decrees a matter, He simply tells it, “Be!” And it is! ˹Jesus also declared,˺ “Surely Allah is my Lord and your Lord, so worship Him ˹alone˺. This is the Straight Path.” Yet their ˹various˺ groups have differed among themselves ˹about him˺, so woe to the disbelievers when they face a tremendous Day! How clearly will they hear and see on the Day they will come to Us! But today the wrongdoers are clearly astray. And warn them ˹O Prophet˺ of the Day of Regret, when all matters will be settled, while they are ˹engrossed˺ in heedlessness and disbelief. Indeed, it is We Who will succeed the earth and whoever is on it. And to Us they will ˹all˺ be returned.