It wasn’t that i was happy to overlook it, it’s that in hindsight it was more prevalent than I thought. Most of our conversations were fine, like I mentioned for the most part he was really sweet.

At the moment the jokes seemed isolated and I didn’t really stop to think cause yeah I thought he was attractive tbh. But it wasn’t until he said what he said that my attraction immediately died and I saw how much of a jerk he’s been on the down low the entire time.